What do boys want in a girl?

Question

I am a 17 year old girl who aint confident! i love to talk and have a great time but yet no boys talk to me! I try to get to know them but they dont want to know me! I am not a pretty person and believe me i know that! But no guy pays attention to me! I have tried to change what i look like and nothing! i hate being single and yet its the only thing that stays the same? I am a friendly, down to earth person who listen to people but what do boys want in a girl??? please help me x x x

Answer 1

god knows

Answer 2

Realize this that probably 99 and 9 tenth percent of the guys out there especially the young ones let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, You've got something they want so stay on your guard ,,,, Don't let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do or you aren't sure about ,,,, And you shouldn't worry about changing your self or trying to be something you aren't ,,,, All you can do is be yourself ,,,, People are either going to accept you or they won't ,,,, You can't force them either way ,,,, People should never judge a book by it's cover and the same thing goes for a person ,,,, Just be yourself and who you are ,,,, They say there is always some one for some one ,,,, Try to maintain a pleasant personality and demeanor ,,,, Some one is going to notice you sooner or later ,,,, You just need to be patient is all ,,,, I know that isn't easy some times and it's allot easier said than done but the more your fret about this the harder it's going to be on you ,,,, Guys in your age bracket can and usually are selfish and self centered ,,,, They are inconsiderate and can be rude ,,,, allot of them have no regard for another persons feelings ,,,, It's like a gauntlet you have to run through ,,,, Don't let these people bother you ,,,, They can't eat you or kill you ,,,, Just recognize them for what they are and blow them off ,,,, You'll be better off in the long run ,,,, Just be patient ,,,, your time will come ,,,, Good luck to you girl ,,, Yoda said this ,,,,

Answer 3

Guys mature slower than girls, so the guys you like are probably terrified of speaking to you.

Try to be down to earth (don't KNOW that you are pretty, people can sense that and it's a complete turn off), friendly chatty and honest. Eventually you will meet someone nice and with luck you'll like them back. Don't be so keen to have a relationship that you just jump and the first person that comes along. Be fussy and choose wisely. Good luck and don't stress, you are still only 17 and have so much time to play the field.

Answer 4

Girl don't worry dat much, when d tym is right u'll find some1 special 4 u. I'm 18 yrs old and its only now dat I've found somei special 4 d 1st tym. I'm not dat preety and he's really hot, even hotter then me. I can assure you this cause most of the girls want him & they even approach him. My point is, dont try to change urself or ur personality just because you want 2 please some boy & dont approach him 1st. Do it 4 u, 4 ur own happiness and luv urself so dat even he would luv u. Being single is quite normal, its just dat some other people chose 2 rush 4 a relationship earlier, dats why maybe u feel left out. Believe me, I know all d drama. Now, plz stop saying u're ain't preety, cause u'll end up going out wit d 1st guy who asks u out even if u don't lyk him, & there's nothing more painful than dat(so I've heard). U deserve better, OK! Now stop playin.

Answer 5

Well to start with you should acted like you are not interested in any of them. Dresse really nice and try making up a fake boyfriend that gose to a nother school. If you don't all ready paint your finger nails turn into a girly girl but still be nice. Try laughing at there jokes they will find you like there sence of humor. Also don't kiss up to the teacher then they will think you are trying to make them interested. Also after somtime when you think some of them like you get the news out that you and your fake boyfriend brokeup. If you do get a boyfriend after somtime let him make the first move because somtimes if girls do they might get wireded out. Also make sure the night you think its going to happen have nice teeth and breath.

Answer 6

I'll bet any money you are as pretty as a picture. All you lack is confidence. Just be yourself when the guys are around. Look up some good jokes and tell a few when you are with some one. A joke and a laugh is always a great ice breaker. Good Luck!

Answer 7

boys the age old question what do they want form us?....boys like girls that are confident and easy to talk to there probably are boys out there who want to get to know you just don't notice them and if a boy dose not like you for you then not change just to be what they want you just have to say i know i am cute and i can get any guy in this room.....i mean from reading about you seem like a nice girl well don't give up hope there is a guy some where ou there..........o and good luck

Answer 8

Hmmm... Being attractive I think is a lot about being excited, it's a lot about living life to the fullest. When you live an exciting life you become attractive and you walk a path were you find others very attractive as well. Strive for being an excited and warm person, I think that will help. Other than that we also like to be treated as healthy human beings, treated with true love.

Answer 9

17 year old guys don't know what they want in a girl. Wait for the guys to grow up and you'll find that things go better. Believe it or not there are nerdy, reject guys out there who currently feel exactly like you do. Do what you enjoy doing and don't be afraid to befriend the shy guys.

Answer 10

I'm 19 years old and I also have the same problem (although I am a real hinderance to myself). Anyway, what I look for in a girl-

- Must be a real sweetie. kind, gentle and loving...perhaps from a humble upbringing

- Pretty (not necessarily HOT) just attractive in my eyes...

- Intelligence is really important to me. This way we can have thoughtful, intellignent conversation. It also 'pushes' me to fulfill my potential.

- someone that gets my strange sense of humour..=)

Answer 11

if you are unconfident about your looks then that will show in the way you present your self. i am not to sure but i think boys like girls who are confident, you don't have to be a model to get a guy babe. what you need to do is focus on what you like about your self don't try to hard concentrate on getting a carer and having fun with your friends and family, your only 17 your face is still maturing. Mr right has plenty of time in finding you and you have plenty of time in finding him.