i think i kno the answer to this one, but i just wanna know
2007-01-10 21:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by TAHOE GUY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're probably looking for this answer :< go ahead and marry >
but I think it's much better that you enjoy your youth alone and free... without a man ordering you around or a woman nagging all the time and children shouting all the times. you may say I love this facts, but mu suggestion is that, take the best advantage of youth yourself and in future you will have plenty of times to share with a husband/ wife and kids.
2007-01-10 21:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by ~ ANGEL ~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Why not just wait a few more years experience the world etc. Your only young once. Live it up and if it's with someone brilliant. Kids are HUGE. I'm 30 and a mother to a 2 year old son with another on the way in may and i'm soooooo glad i waited. Although the sleep deprivation and lack of funds sucks at any age lol. I've been with my b/f for six years now he is the father of my children and i'm in no rush to get married. It's just a piece of paper. Live a little first or you may regret it later : )
2007-01-11 05:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lambchop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can want to get married, but dont do it! Not until youve been with a few girls. Getting married now is a sure fire way to an early divorce. If you have a kid and get divorced 5 years later, do you want to be making child support payments until the kid is 18? With you being, age 24 or 25, that would make for a miserable life when people your age are supposed to enjoy life while they can so to speak.
2007-01-11 05:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by jonsforde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES DEFINATELY!!! You will change a LOT after the age of say 21 - 25 and if you are meant to be together, you will stay together regardless of marriage. Kids are a hell of a lot of work and sacrifice. People used to get married at this age but only because they didn't have the options that we do now. Live together, fall in love etc but enjoy your YOUTH while you can then have kids.. you've heaps of time
2007-01-11 05:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not too young to want to get married. It is probably to young to actually get married. The desire for relationship with real commitment is natural as is the desire to procreate. Wanting a child with someone you care for is normal, actually being mature enough to undertake that responsiblitity is a totally different story.
19 is really young. Your risk of divorce is significantly higher at that age. Being all grown up with a family before your 22 is not easy or especially fun.
2007-01-11 05:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you've (imho) not lived long enough to experience life enough to know not only what life is about but your role in it. How you feel about it etc etc. I could go on for so long.
My take on it was simply I would be the best I could be at my job and as a person and then just see what happens. I never thought about it life just happened.
Oh and was I thinking about it at 19? No way I was too busy having a laugh with my mates!
2007-01-11 05:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You will have alot of regrets,trouble keeping the marriage together,anger at yourself AND your Family,for something you chose to do.People mature at different times in life.So you may be able to handle the stress,hard work,and responsibilities.But it might be better if you lived alittle(make some memories,just nothing too crazy)Good Luck!
2007-01-11 05:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for most (i say 80%) others just dont have a choice... there is 1% thats ready for it...
i mean
u gotta have a high paying job to raise the kid and run a family buy a house and give your kid his/her own room buy cars pay bills food expenses its not simple...
2007-01-11 05:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes !!!! theres so much more to life in which i have yet to c ! n im like older than ur ( im 21 ) ..maybe u may wish to wait till ard 22 ?? ...getting married n having kids meant more responsibilities ...
2007-01-11 05:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. B U T......you haven't lived yet and the probability is that you will regret it. The first thing you will miss is going out with friends.
2007-01-11 05:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by simpletrader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋