I need some advice. I believe that when you find the right person you know it straight away, your heart beats faster and for the moments your with that person your life feels whole. I always thought that love at first sight wasnt a dream but real, am i a fool for wanting my life to be the romance story we so often not only see in films?
I want to find love, but ive been broken hearted before, and now all my dreams sem to be shattered. Is this belief meerely an overated dream?
2007-01-10 21:13:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you that romantic and naive, you just beleive anything you hear??
"follow you heart" "love is at the first sight" etc.... are just funny, infantaile sentences ... plz be a little open - minded and follow your BRAIN instead . how ever it's true that:
but the question is what's the TRUE love? how can you recognize it??
2007-01-10 21:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by ~ ANGEL ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do know straight away - because that is how I felt with my fiance when I first met him on a blind date that was set up by mutual friends. Everybody wants their life to be a perfect romance story but the truth is... the ones on TV and in films... are not perfect love stories. A perfect love story is the one that you create with your true love... The arguments, the apologies, the love making - that is all part of the love story... You can only create your own - not mimick one off of the TV.
Keep looking for her because there is someone for everybody - you just haven't found her yet.
Good luck and keep searching for your true love and perfect love story... :-)
2007-01-11 06:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a more romantic way of thinking. My story is like this: One say you will meet someone, someone whom you think is your true love. But, due to other lusts and infatuation, you forget the feeling soon. However, as life has it, after a few years you are being woken up again by the feeling, but this time you tried everything to show that person that you really love him or her. You do everything. You make a lot of sacrifices. At first, that person was not interested in you but soon she or he will realise your love. That is a very rare romantic story and will make a very good movie.
But, basically I do not believe in love at first sight. I deem that love takes time to develop. But, at first true love may be realised; but in the form of lust.
2007-01-11 05:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so keep believing in it and it will happen
u are no fool having ur own dreams and u shouldnt stop searching for what u want
there is love at first sight and u are right that we mostly know from the start if this person is right or not !
all the best for u !
2007-01-11 05:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in time you will find the right person for you. being broken hearted by someone shouldn't make you stop believing in true love, because someone out there is right for you. Your not a fool, many people out there want to be part of the romantic life. If you want your life to be the romance story, be romantic to someone who you think/know is the right person, make them smile!
2007-01-11 05:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in the same, except that you don't always know it right away, you can know someone for a while and then suddenly it happens. Don't feel like a fool, but also don't dismiss anyone because it was different at first than how you imagined or else you could miss your opportunity.
2007-01-11 05:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe in love at first sight, u kinda get this warm feeling when u meet someone, i love the feeling. some people think its a load of old rubbish, but i know how i felt when i met my fella and still feel like it now.
it can be overated but its down to u on how u feel and not what others say
2007-01-11 05:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its real, it happened between me and my fiance we knew we'd be together from the first look, and i'm not even joking, it was a gut feeling, but once in relationship you need to still work over the riffs, but because of love you can get through anything,
xx good luck with finding that person
xx
2007-01-11 05:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by natasha_essence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax a little,and love will come to you...If you're looking for love every time you go out and when you don't find it,you get disappointed and more nervious every next time.
All happens when it's destined to be,so wait for your turn!
2007-01-11 08:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Yasna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very romantic, but slightly deluded. Time is the only measurement of true love.
2007-01-11 05:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by PvteFrazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋