he proposed to me marry me,i tried to get him off my mind but cant,am scared of losing him cos we only know each other with the aid of pictures...how do i trust him?
2007-01-10 21:13:23 · 9 answers · asked by dingo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you trust him by spending a LONG time with him. If you can't meet him face to face, then you can only tell with time. You'd be amazed how many people fall in love on line only to be hurt later. I'm not saying it can't happen. i KNOW it CAN. it's just that so many want it so bad that they often think it's their soul mate very early on. If it really is, then only time and lots of time can tell the truth. Continue with it as it is and if he is really the right one then he will still be there after 6 months, a year or five years. True love doesn't go away. make sure that this is what it really is and not what you both want it to be. good luck it will take a hell of a lot of sacrifice to make something such as this work but all love requires sacrifice at some stage and if you can make it through it, you are right for each other.
2007-01-10 21:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be really careful girl what you see on the picture may not be reality. And what you are calling love may be lust. Invite him over or visit him so that the two of you can have time to talk face to face and get know each other. After that you can be able make your decision based on the outcome of your visit or his.
2007-01-11 05:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by magy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long you know him,also if you use webcam to see his actual facial expressions while you talk to each other.I've been talking with a girl for over 1 year as a friend in another country.until the both of us broke up with current relationships at the same time,we started talking more and more,i wasn't in love but really liked her alot..we talk almost everyday until i made a joke of her coming to see me,at first she said really? the joke turned to reality.now she's staying with me and so far so good.but it took alot of trust for her to come to me first.the only way you'll know is if u visit each other atleast 1week or a few days to see if its really real..as for the marriage,you'll have to be together for a while before you make that decision and he has to earn your trust.
2007-01-11 05:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by nitro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant trust someone u know only from pictures and sorry to say but how can he propose ????
u should get away or just stay friends but nothing more
2007-01-11 06:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before making any decision, ask yourself 5 times..
Is it love?Is it Lust??
Love or Lust
The fake dream that I made u saw
one day broke
we met and soon after that
we realised, it was a joke
what happened after that?
why we never thought about our relationship?
till yesterday on eachother,we had immense trust
but now we are confused
was it love? was it lust?
2007-01-11 05:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Saurav Arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, its never wrong.
Im from Canada and my boyfriend is from the UK, and we're happy. I moved to the UK nearly 4 months ago and never looked back.
Get him to come see you for a week and see how that goes.
2007-01-11 05:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no gal stay away frm him. thats risky. b friends bt not husdand n wife
2007-01-11 05:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fuckk ur brains out.
2007-01-11 05:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Boone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 05:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋