im currently very stressed with all of the things im doing. i want to change completely. ie my way of speaking,approaching,dressing everything. how do i exzctly do it.
2007-01-10 21:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by gowrav mj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try the book "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff" It helped me to chill out
2007-01-10 21:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by ashleighshea1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dresses is easy and it changes your state of mind. Posture can be worked on through general awareness. Speech is tough... easiest way is mingling with the type of people you want to speak like and just trying to not stand out.
When all is said and done, you're going to be the same person with the same problems. Life won't be any less stressful.
2007-01-11 05:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do the exact opposite of what you normally do. And ask the sales rep to help you at the mall stores when you go shopping. Buy a GQ mag. and ask work on how you want to speak. Change is never easy but it is obtainable if you commit to it. Good Luck!
2007-01-11 05:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get to know yourself. Know who you are, know what you want, know what helps you achieve your goal and what is detrimental to you achieving your goals. Be honest with yourself. Is this who you really want to be? Once you're truely honest with yourself and know who you are and who you hope to become, then start making the changes to improve yourself. It's not just clothes, putting a drug addict in a suit doesn't make him an executive. Same with you, I suggest if you really want to change start writing things down. Write a self inventory of who you are, then write an inventory of who you wish to become. Look it over and make sure you're being honest with yourself. Then forget about the current you and write out a plan on how you are going to become the ideal you. Be as specific as you can about the things you're going to do and the person you're going to become. Then follow through on your plan. Go back and review your ideal you and your plan, make sure you're still being honest with yourself and see if you're making any progress. Make sure you still want the same things and make adjustments if you need to. Keep working at it and keep reviewing your goals. You'll get there eventually. Good luck.
2007-01-11 05:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first see the latest trend in boys now a days in clothing s or see the stars what sort of trendy dresses they wear, and for speaking u have to be polite and listening individual, put ur self in other's shoes and then deal with them
2007-01-11 05:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cologne: Curve (cheap)
Clothes: Polo
Car: Mustang with rims
Haircut: I have a edgeup
And buy some big *** Diamond Earrings and smile!
2007-01-11 05:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pimpsta© 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change ur mindset 1st.
The way i see is your mindset is fixed to a point.
Good luck in 2007
2007-01-11 05:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by ジャンリン 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoke weed daily.
2007-01-11 05:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by osopimpin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get an advice demonstrate the way you do every thing then you will get an advice.......But i think you have to be your self.
2007-01-11 05:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Havel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to change?
arent you happy with your self (you original style)
If you really want to, contact Mr. Hitch hehe
2007-01-11 05:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋