they dont seem interested in building a romantic relationship...
2007-01-10 20:51:11 · 13 answers · asked by bluesky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they dont seem to be interested in building romantic relationship..
i ask this to see if others have had the same problem and probably can help me out..
2007-01-10 20:58:22 · update #1
*hugs* i know and understand what you mean. I seem to have similar problems. Many thoughts have gone throught my head.. and endless conversation with family, friends and myself had been conducted... but i never really have found 'THE' answer.
The closest i have found to an answer, which is not as close as to the answer that is satisfying or the one i want to hear came for a friend.
He said, sometimes, when you are just so close to someone, being just friends, that is what it becomes. just friends. The intention of moving further than friendship, at the expense of ruining something special sometimes is not worth it, hence, they move on to find something else, leaving us behind, but considering us friends.
He stresses that there is nothing wrong with 'me' or the 'girl' in the same dilema... just unlucky, not the one, not meant to be.
have you ever tried moving out of your comfort zone? like, perhaps make a move towards a guy and tell them that you are somewhat interested..?
*hugs* i wish you good luck.. and may 2007 bring changes to you!
2007-01-10 21:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us like having friends specially girls but till there,take it from me I have many friends that are girls and some of them want to go out with me but I just don't see them as my future life partner although they have a great personality and are beautifully most of them but I just don't have another kind of Interest for them.
Don't worry you'll find your guy soon and who you less expected it will be,maybe that prince charming you were looking for comes up to you one day and tell you that he wants to Merrie you,you never know what could happen,so just be patient.
2007-01-10 21:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Big Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's depending on any number of things...the way you look, the way you carry yourself as do you identify more with your guy friends or girlfriends. Do you dress as if you are confused about your sexuality? Do you wear jewely or make-up? Do you flirt? Have you let any of your friends know how you feel? A makeover may help because guys are into "eye candy" nowadays.
2007-01-10 20:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz of the way you behave with them. If they dont get the impression from you that you're romantic and sexy, then they'll jus take you like their sister or friend
2007-01-10 20:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the qualities you posses and they would rather not treat you like the "other girls" because they care about you which is good.also they would rather not lose you as a friend if the "romantic relationship doesn't go well.you will meet that someone who will fall in love with you for who you are....
2007-01-10 21:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by nitro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that some of them (not all) are friends with you because its there way of showing you they are interested. maybe you cant see it.
2007-01-10 20:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you act like one of the guys? Or do you act like yourself as a woman? Maybe that has something to do with it.
2007-01-10 20:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it won't be long and you'll be under the sheets with some dude rocking his world.
2007-01-10 20:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Docta Jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be, somethin' blocking.
2007-01-10 20:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you ask questions that can not be answered by strangers?
2007-01-10 20:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋