I found porn on the comp, and calmly talked to my bf about it just because it hurt me a bit. I was very understanding and told him I understand why men look at it, and that I know it has nothing to do with me because he doesn't have a lack of sexual interest in me. He wanted to reassured me that it had nothing to do with me. He asked me if I honestly knew that. Later that night while trying to sleep I was very still and a few tears began to roll down his cheeks, and I asked him what was wrong. He said "I'm worried that you won't feel as close to me now because of that. And you might wonder what else I could lie about." I told him that I feel just as close as I always have and that I loved him no matter what. The next day he said he wasn't going to look at it anymore and I told him I DID NOT ask him to do that. He said it was his own decision. Is it possible for a man to lose some sexual interest in his girl because she's the only one he seeks naked? Without porn anymore?
2007-01-10 20:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by Liquid Cherry Blood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry, i do have some pron but i dont watch it anymore in fact its been a long time since i did watch it... me and my gf have a great sex life i dont need to watch it.... there is one thing you might want to try... i did this before with one of my ex gf a long time ago.. and that is to watch it with him, he and maybe you might like this and it might be good for you sex life if its not going so well.... any way good luck...
2007-01-10 20:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an older guy who takes Playboy and loves to look at beautiful women on the PC. I don't like raunchy sexual pictures, but looking at naked women is a real turn-on. My wife ask me about Playboy and I said, I need all the help I can't get at my age. As long as he is using the turn-ons for you and not sitting there whacking off; let him do it. I he is still interested in you sexually, don't worry about it. Have you ever listened to the sound of love making, when people are really going at it? Try that for a real turn-on. Guys are really visual people, that's why everyone associates guys with a remote in there hands.
2007-01-11 05:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dutch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...why lose sexual interest on ur gf over porn? Hey, got a gf u can do it....is much better then watching some actors doing it right? Unless that guy is a weirdo then i got nothing much to say, cos he rather spank his monkey then getting laid...weird!!
2007-01-10 20:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 23:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weell if your bf is not good to say yes i look at porn there is some thing wrong with him it is ok because he still comes home to you right leave him alone with it it will make you sex life better ok
2007-01-10 21:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by gifford_james21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im interested to know the answer to that too !!! ..will guys compared their partner looks to those in porn ?
2007-01-10 20:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 12:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, maybe, he might still look at porno, it's too tempting.
2007-01-10 20:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it dont matter wht she see's
but it matter wht she do's with u
2007-01-10 20:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-10 20:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋