I borrowed my girl my phone and i found that she had a romantic message which goes like, i ve arrived babe, wher a u. After talking about it, i said to her, you never loved or respected me. She got furious, stormed out of the house after packing her clothes and left. The next day she told me she dumped me. Advice me on this one. I love her so much. She stil has not come home. What do you think?
2007-01-10 20:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tsk tsk...you didnt have to say that (never is a strong word), but i think you know that now. you said you talked to her about it, what did she say? the message was truly suspicious, but dont conclude by yourself. she might be cheating, but the message may have been wrong like, its just a harmless endearment or something. is she the sender or the receiver of that msg, it wasnt clear. for all you know it was a wrongsend. what was the name of the other guy, did you ask who he is?
well anyway..you cant get anything resolved if you dont talk to her. tell her you were angry that time and would like to know her side now. if she still doesnt want you back, well..theres no forcing her.
goodluck.
2007-01-10 22:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone calling you babe is not necessarily romantic. I'm a girl with lots of male and female friends and we all call eachother babe and other little names. In what you stated, nothing even had a chance of sounding like she had romantic ties with someone other than the word babe and not even that shows that she is involved with someone else. If you came at me with a statement like that, I would get furious too. You may have really messed up by jumping to conclusions. Try to contact and talk to her and tell her you were wrong but explain to her your thoughts and fears. Hopefully you haven't just lost her for good.
2007-01-11 04:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u are in the wrong..u cant judge a person whether they love or respect u or not just by those stupid sms....it's the guy who message her first...and after all, he just called her babe...what's wrong with that ? u shldnt said to her that she never loved and respected u...it hurted her u know..i would also leave u if i were ur gf..u are the one who are never loved and respected her
2007-01-11 04:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by sil3nt_h3art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks.
You may love her but she apparently does not feel the same.
Move on.It will take time but you will recover and find someone who will love and respect you.
2007-01-11 04:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sh cheated on you. if she's the one for you... she'll come back.
i know its hard, but everyone goes through it
2007-01-11 04:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by arenania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got caught cheating on u and she upset about it.
2007-01-11 04:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋