2007-01-10 20:06:07 · 26 answers · asked by Tahir Rameez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man... there is this song I love about this situation.. Unfortunately its a Greek one so I dont think you'll get the lyrics.. Its called "Gia na se Ekdikitho" (To Get Back on You)
I will try to translate it for you...
To get back on you
I tear apart your pictures,
me and you are just pieces
in street corners and squares
I burn your letters
in my fever
and i erase your name
along with mine
To get back on you
i throw away gifts and mementos
me and you are just broken pieces
I tear away your paintings,
your favorite posters
and i paint all the curtains
with the colour you hated
To cure the wounds that never close
Since i never got you out of my life
(it goes on repeating the above...)
There is not a person i know that does not feel better with this song.. As I said a translation is the only thing I can give you now...
2007-01-10 20:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, pain is good. Without pain, there would be no art. :) If you like to make art of any kind, now is the time to work on something. Use that pain for the incredible inspiration that it is. Right now it's horrible, but when it's over, the pain you're feeling today will deepen you as a human being. Hard to believe, I know. You probably don't even care right now. But take my word for it, someday you will have more understanding and compassion for people. It's called emotional growth, and I promise you, it will eventually all be worth it.
2007-01-11 04:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to know that... well my guy pals always says that to lessen the pain that you feel on those kinds of situations, all you have to do is celebrate the girl's bad traits... that way you'll see that you haven't lost something great... but as for me, i say that let time pass...remember that there are no wounds that time cannot heal.... secondly, think that what had happened to you was a lesson, and whatever that lesson might be, it is important that you find it out...coz that's how we learn... lastly, i say to you, reminisce the good times you've had and be thankful that you've experienced them... don't be this "sad guy who's currently buried six feet under and tends to remain there until he dies"... you'll only hurt yourself more... remember that mourning on someone who past away won't bring life to the dead.... I say, get up and go find yourself a healthy hobby...who knows? maybe you'll meet the real deal someday...
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-11 04:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by paipaisiomai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal growth and having a new outlook on life are what most ppl would recomend.
I personally would recomend self medicating and staying locked indoors for a few months.
Cheating hurts like hell. Sorry your GF's a b*tch.
2007-01-11 04:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Grief happens in five stages.
1. Denial and Isolation.
2. Anger.
3. Bargaining.
4. Depression.
5. Acceptance.
Time will heal all wounds, until then, stay busy and active.
2007-01-11 04:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i always buy a "break-up cd" and listen to it over and over until i can sing the songs without crying.girls are stupid.i know because i am one.she feels bad on the inside, trust me.go out as much as possible.to parties and coffee shops.don't get hammered though, or you will end up with a few notches on your belt that you never wanted.lol.tell her exactly how you feel in a letter.i did that with my ex and it was devastating for him.he wrote me back with some pretty good apologies.it was worth it.
2007-01-11 04:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by hippyp23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she has cheated on u hun and she definately doesn't deserve u.U can try to keep yourself busy with friends and books and family. But whatever u do, do not seek comfort from alcohol or drugs. stay healthy and happy. Just remember that, it's not the end of the world.U will find someone better. good luck!
2007-01-11 04:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is one proverb in one regional language whether u r aware of it or not i don't know,but i will tell "gold can cut by an gold only" to lessen the pain try to find another chick so that u can forget her easily by chasing a new one that is generation
2007-01-11 04:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by prem k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As has been said, keep yourself busy. The worst you can do is sit at home and think about it, that will drive you insane. Surround yourself with friends and family, be with people who care for you, do things you enjoy. Life's a *****, just like your girlfriend.
2007-01-11 04:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, and the pain will lessen with it...we all have been there time and again...keep busy go out with friends, work or what ever that keeps you mind occupied...you will survive...
2007-01-11 04:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋