if it your colleague, a friend, a family member( close relatives, your parents) what can you do ?
2007-01-10 20:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by Summer O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to them about it. Let them know how you feel.
If they don't change, keep some space between you. Only see them when you have to, until they change. If they confront you about this, tell them as long as they continue to use you, you have no choice but to keep your distance from them for your own self preservation. They will soon see how valueable you are to them & change.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-10 20:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by ICUsmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to find a way to check that. People are mean. If it is a friend or a colleague, and you have a feeling inside, think about it. Maybe he is not your friend. And if you are close to youre family if you do not hide anything, they shouldn't be using you.
2007-01-11 04:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Joka B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a hard question. They say we can only be used as much as we want to be...but what if the choices are slim. If you have to take care of a loved one, a sick child that want's popsicles every few minutes? Are they using you or are they just
relying on you? Man what a great question....another thing to think about tonight...
2007-01-11 04:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well unless your relationship with your family is bad,they're not using you,they just depend on you.i can understand a cousin or something,but eventually,your family comes around...if a friend or whoever is like that,just give them a hard time,make them do things for themselves and if worst comes to worst,you can always make new friends! good luck =]
2007-01-11 04:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cool what u make it big deal.. i use to have my close friends and some of my family member it's cool, that they help u.. not necessary look at you and watch u... make this negative for u positive to use it better.
2007-01-11 04:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting them do it.
You can not control or change another person.
You can only control and change what you do.
So what ever they are using you to do ...stop doing it.
What ever they are using you to get ...stop giving it to them.
2007-01-11 04:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋