I have a girlfriend of 5 months, but we are not goin to have sex for a while, i want to know something special and exciting that would surprise her. anything will help, please include directions if u know them, thanks again
2007-01-10 19:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by laxgod55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its the little things that count. Kiss her, let her know she makes you happy and that you care for her and respect her, hug her, hold hands, be affectionate, give her flowers and small gifts just because its Wednesday, try new things and just maintain whatever you've been doing. It seems you have a lot of respect for her. If you mean how to please her physically without sex; kiss her in key areas (i.e neck, ear, etc.) and small things like that.
2007-01-10 19:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Please her without sex" By this do you mean, non-sexual or sexual but not intercourse. Non-sexual: cook her a fun dinner or go get some exotic dinner (thai, sushi, anything different she'd like). I always fine a good dinner, a nice wine and good conversation lead to a satisfying evening.. Realize that the effort employed and the adventure are more important than the success of the experiment.
As far as sexual but not intercourse... that would depend totally on what's appropriate for the physicality of your relationship. Tell her that tonight you're simply going to focus on giving her pleasure and just let her relax -- that's worked for me before.
2007-01-11 04:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a women really wants u dont even have to use money. Do things like rub her feet, brush her hair, smile everytime u see her thats enough for us
2007-01-11 03:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by tuttifruity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always loved it when my boyfriend (now husband) gave me a backrub and kissed my back. It was so calming and relaxing and I really felt his love for me. I still give special requests for those!!!!! He now loves them as well!!! Might be something you can both share?!
2007-01-11 03:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by bubblingbroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are planty of ways for both of you to get your cookies without any actual penetration......oral, masturbation, toys, etc.
Get naked, keep a bottle of warming KY handy, and go nuts!
2007-01-11 03:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice to her, date her, buy a card for her or flowers occasionally and don't put yourself in the situation of doing something you are not ready for.
2007-01-11 03:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could send her flowers. it makes girls feel so special and loved. also, you could leave little notes hidden around her house that say things like, "You're beautiful" or "I love you", they could also say things you like about her.
2007-01-11 03:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by meep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring her to candelite and follow her to shop anything she wants.
buy her sum gifts that she will love it for sure. Diamonds never fail to please women.
2007-01-11 03:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Murni Sad Adi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MONEY
2007-01-11 03:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Lou S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋