Am i human? or cyborg?
is it normal to feel no remorse when i break up with someone?-am i just cold hearted?
when i break up with someone i don't feel sad or anything, but it didn't get too serious to begin with anyhow lol which means it wasn't totally official kind of thing. i am 18 and about a year ago i was really looking forward to having a long-term relationship but somehow now i don't even think about it haha am i still human ?
i asked this question before but ppl thought i was a "he", which is not right, i am a "she"....oh right and i dont get like serious and physical with them either
whats wrong with me?
2007-01-10 19:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by confused 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
As far as I know the only beings that post on the internet are humans. And so are you, I'm sure. I don't think you have anything wrong with you, either, you just "weren't that into him." Maybe (probably) someday you'll find someone you really, really like, and want to be intimate with, and really want to have a relationship with, you never know. I've had girlfriends that broke up with me and I was like "OK" and others that actually made me cry, so some people are more meaningful than others, that's just how life goes.
2007-01-12 17:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are human for one. There are others out there that have this same problem so you are not alone. Many things could of caused you to be this way, for some reason you really do not trust getting to close to that person, and so you keep it just a simple friendly realationship, for a short while, and you don't get attached to the person. You may have seen a lot of bad relationships, and thus have told yourself that was not going to happen to you, so you keep your distance. The only way you are really going to know why you are this way is to see a doctor, or a therapist. It may take a while, but if you want to have a lasting relationship that you really care about , then you are going to need to seek some kind of professional help. So go and make an appointment, and see what is bothering you, and see how they can help you with this. You might find out things about yourself and your life that you had no idea about, and that can show and explan to you why you are the way you are. So please go and seek some professional help, so you can live your life with someone else that is special to you , if that is what you want. I am not going to say it is going to be easy, but it is well worth it in the end, and you will find out why you are this way, and what you can do for it.
2007-01-11 04:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you're human.
Its just that you don't really long for companionship yet - it could be possible that for some reason, you are afraid of commitment, or it could be that you are emotionally secure and satisfied with yourself, and you don't need anyone to make you feel complete. Also, it seems more to me like you want the relationship like a fad and not for emotional reasons.
Just make sure you don't break any hearts along the way, alright?
It'll take you time, but I'm sure you'll feel the warmth when you meet someone really right. There is no point in getting involved with anyone just for the heck of it, I think you're better off this way.
2007-01-11 03:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Reiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have asked the same question of myself. I know it may sound kinda mean, but try torturing animals (Gerbils or Rats) to see if you care about their being hurt. Then you will see the extent of your remorse or if you're purely inhuman.
Mind you, being inhuman is okay.
2007-01-11 08:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day you might find out that you are all too human. Not being mean, just serious. Heck, you're only 18 years old.
2007-01-11 03:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you yourself know from the bottom of your heart, this is a sign that you have not found your Mr. Right..
Put in a list what amazed/amused you???
2007-01-11 03:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a mental doctor, you are devoid of emotion, you know darn well you are no cyborg, this is real and not some science fiction story, see a doctor
2007-01-11 03:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are human..
You just didn't love her as much as you thought...
2007-01-11 03:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your just stupid?
Your question certainly suggests so.
2007-01-11 03:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Future 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋