is there only one 'the one'-or can there be more? I've loved,been in love,then thought i'd found 'the one',but i'm not his .I've now met someone else and believe he is 'the one'.does this make sense?
2007-01-10 19:29:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its called growing up and when you find YOUR one you will know it and so will he have patience!!
2007-01-10 19:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is The One!!! But you need to find them first!!! If they are The One then you will feel a very strong connection with that person from day one... They are only The One if they feel the same about you!!! They are not The One if they feel differently from you! You have simply THOUGHT that that person is The One!!! They were'nt actually THE ONE!... I hope this makes sense lol.
Remember that The One is actually a two way street... This The One you met now, does it feel any different then the last One... Because if this guy is The One you should be feeling very different from the last one... You will be feeling things you have never felt before... Thats if you tell if it's THE ONE.... Good luck xxxx
2007-01-10 19:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by cranberry queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. But it seems like your in desperate need to find "the 1". But sorry to burst the bubble but there's only 1 "the 1". Hence the name "the 1". But it's not all about love, butterflies and rainbows, because "the 1" is going to be the person who could withstand your crap and you withstand theirs for years and not fall out of love. I think that's the definition of "the 1".
2007-01-10 19:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Diablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in the one!! If you have one soul mate in the whole world, what do u think the chances of meeting him where you live are?? I believe there are many people out there that we can love and that can arrive in our lives at a particular time and be exactly what we are looking for at that time.
2007-01-10 21:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mind ur business!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many potential "the ones", there are some that you actually meet and temporarily get involved with; and then, if you're lucky, after all that comes "the one" whom you bury when you're 80. But you can never tell which "the one" WILL be *that* one until it actually happens - and by that time, you have lost him!
Just enjoy "the ones" that come your way, and don't get too philosophical about it. Through trial and error, you will meet your "one" - and certainly have fun with the "trial" part.
2007-01-10 19:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not when your young especially in men, us youngster go through growing pains and it only make us stronger and these days young just cant stick it out long enough to get over that stage. Just when your young, you are not guaranteed to be together forever that was in the old days when men and women had morals and values, But have fun while it last.
2007-01-10 19:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People and situations change so that the one sometimes makes way for the next one. It is a normal everyday event and it is important to realize that it is not a question of fault but of changing realities.
2007-01-10 19:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is the one at the time because it fills the need to be with someone,if it doesn't work out,people always say they were not the one,yet if you have a full and long relationship,they become the one,its all aload of old tripe,it either works or it does`nt
2007-01-10 19:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Eckey Thump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe there is just one person for us. I know of people who have had 2 happy marriages. With all the people there are on this planet, if there is just one - the chances of each of us finding it are almost non existent.
2007-01-10 20:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it makes total sense. I used to think there's only one, but now I think maybe there are several "ones." Maybe the last one is the real "one."
2007-01-10 19:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with the idea of "Love". In your life there will be more than one of "the ones". Just settle back and wait to see what happens.
2007-01-10 19:34:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋