The lady is un married. She is very beautiful for me. By the way am very ugly looking. Kindly advise what might this lady looking for me? Can anybody tell me on what might be going on.......Am scheduing myself to meet her on this sun coming Sunday......I dout if this can be a true love...or she is pretending?
2007-01-10 19:07:09 · 24 answers · asked by chakaleri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you even meet her? You are married with kids and should be happy with your wife. If you are unattractive and married she probably wants to use you for her personal gain.
2007-01-10 19:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by moosh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For starters. Tell this all to your wife and see if SHE has the answer for her 'oh so responsible husband'.
If the answer still isnt clear, I suggest you be honourable and keep the appointment you made with the clear intention that your dear wife AND three children are along too to help you find your answer.
Stop this nightmare you are creating for the five of you and get a grip on your life. DO NOT TAKE THAT NEXT STEP:
We all have fantasies and wishful thinking, but throwing away what you have is NOT the answer to anything.
Do something really useful, like reavowing love for your wife, telling her she is beautiful and everything you ever wanted and that you are so very grateful to have her in your life.
Work on THAT relationship and you won't regret it.
Play with the other idea and you WILL, and you may be so dissapointed and hurt at the end of it all that you have no honour left.
What is more important?
2007-01-10 19:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by fjäril 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the lady being un-married do you mean that she is divorced or you don't know that much about her? NO other woman should be beautiful to you BUT your wife! Calling yourself ugly mean you have low self-esteem and are heading down a dangerous road here mister.
Are you planning on ending your marriage in the next couple years cause you can't have both and the kids will be the ones who will be the worse off...you are their role model and don't be a sorry one. Especially if you have a son...what would you tell him 'Son, do as I say, don't do as I do?" Or if you have a little girl? Do you want her to think ALL men are pigs that cheat on their wives and can't ever be trusted. Btw, my dad cheated on my mom with my current step-mom and he cheated on his first wife with my mom...tell ya somethin'?
Do not meet this woman, she may be after your money if you say you don't know what she sees in you? Or has a sick thrill of breaking up marriages? You know that you are in the wrong or you wouldn't be here asking so do your family a favor and tell the other lady 'NO' and find a marriage counselor.
2007-01-10 19:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by LS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? You are married and have three children? but you are meeting with another lady you find attractive? You need to spell check before you put a question like this out so you don't look ignorant in more ways than the obvious one.
2007-01-10 19:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by goddessbella77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This Beotch is a Predator. Women like her prey on supposedly happily married men in the hopes of giving up a little sex in exchange for free money. I know men who are married, but wine and dine other women, as well as breaking them off a little change every now and then. A little "No strings attached" sex and a few dollars is all she is looking for from you. Stay with your wife--don't throw away your life for someone who would not want you if you weren't in a committed relationship with someone else.
2007-01-10 19:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tiff 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
STOP before it is to late....Think about your kids, if you do this you can never undo it!!! She only wants the money & security you give your family. She will grow bored & tired of you and break your heart. You will end up with nothing, no family & she will be gone too. Keep your family, they are so precious these days...If you think she is pretending then why would you risk loosing your family & everything you have for a fling with a lying woman.
2007-01-10 19:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is your responsibility to safeguard your marriage,( inclusive of beautiful women) and that obviously if u give in to your curiosity you are opening up for harm. So comeon man belt up and dont fall for the wiles of a woman who doesnt care about the welfare of urself, ur kids, and ur wife.
Maybe for her she is turned on by the fact that u are a married man and not necessarily by u as a person.
on another note about ur self confessed ugliness, just know that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. That is why u have that wife there, coz she is attracted to you.
All the best on your decision.
2007-01-10 19:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by LadyK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHe loves you (she told me)
glad that you decided NOT to meet her and be the reponsible man that you claimed to be and leave her alone.
Your wife and kids would very much appreciate that
p.s. Pretty (or handsome) is more than what is reflected in the mirror.
If you go and meet this woman, I would agree with you that you are very, very ugly.
2007-01-10 19:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by onestepbeyond 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband has 2 different halves. the reason he married 2d time changed into that they had many issues and he idea its better to marry then to allow shaitaan lead him to haraam. i need to discuss that once marring 2d time, their relationship has more suitable a lot and he or she is better chuffed in her marriage now to boot. My chum is a 2d spouse to boot. Her husband married because his first spouse has no deen and changed into very undesirable with him. She left him on my own for 6 months for no reason and he or she obeys her father earlier her husband. yet another chum is a spouse variety 3. they basically were given married and he or she (new muslim) has no issues such as his 2 different different halves and seven little ones. i imagine in case you save on with the deen of Islam, a lady ought to don't have any problems with this problem. This turned right into a organic order of existence for thousands of years and Allah is acquainted with ideal about His guidelines.
2016-12-02 02:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you afford alimony, child support for three children, and possibly also end up supporting a new wife? If not, cancel Sunday.
2007-01-10 19:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by mld m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋