i am 8 months pregnant with my bfs son and we already have a 21 month old... he is my first " real" bf...all of my bfs have cheated on me with friends, so i dont like making new girlfriends cuz im terrifed my man will cheat on me altho he says he;'d never... i just know that if i had a hot skinny girl with big boobs over and i went to the washroom or something and if she were to stand in front of him and expose her breast and tell him to touch them he would even tho he says he wouldnt i mean come on... he is a guy... is this bad?
2007-01-10 19:02:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because your very pregnant your feeling very thugly,this too shall pass don't ruin your marriage because your feeling insecure.
Do pick girlfriends who have morals and you should be right but I know what you mean 1 of my best friends(and I use the term lightly) had both my partners Obviously I was a poor judge of character
2007-01-10 19:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he already done something for you to mistrust him in this way? I understand your pain because I have had friends do this to me in the past also. I always looked at it as a good thing because they helped me weed out the bad guys. Although, in your case you are going to have a baby with him. So, you probably don't need to bring any good looking friends around until after the baby is born, just so you can have mental satisfaction. Another thing I did was I quit hanging around all those friends because a true friend will not do that kind of thing when you are not in the room and she would let you know if he tried anything with her while you were gone(if the badness is on his end).
2007-01-10 19:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he would do that then he's not worth your time anyway. Just because he's a guy doesn't mean he doesn't have self control. If he cared about you the way you would expect him to, then he would not do something like what you suggested. I don't think you should restrict his access to your girl friends.. Again, if he would do that, then that's a good sign for you to move on, and also get some more loyal friends.
2007-01-10 19:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by als535 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be cautious about who you let around your bf and your kids. What you need to do is pick better friends. I think your picker might be broken. Which means that you need to find friends that are nice and trustworthy, mature, and kind. Someone who will be a devoted friend for you, someone who has their stuff together and isn't out bar hopping and drinking and drugging.
2007-01-10 19:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be inclined to say that you should trust your man, but sometimes some woman throw themselves at men with significant others. Yea, you have to trust your man, but keep your guard up on certain women. If he truly loves you then no one came between you two.Let what happen in the pass with your ex go.
2007-01-10 19:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to choose your friends more wisely. A good friend would never even think of sleeping or making a move on your boyfriend or husband.
2007-01-10 19:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋