I am do intensive research into why people get blammed for forgetting things dispite trying thier hardest to remember.
This is so that I know what can be done about it and how best to respond to it.
This is a page of the research process and notes.
http://memoryimplants.blogspot.com
After reading this, can people tell me what you think of this information?
Why does this blame problem occur?
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2007-01-10 18:18:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
For one, no one should be blaming anyone of any thing. People do forget, that is normal. I did not go read that, cause i will do not like clicking on links. So you can say i have a few things going on too. Anyway people blame, cause they do not want to take the respondsiabity of having to remember it themself, or actually saying that they could of been in the wrong. So they find a person to be their exscape goat, in this case it looks like you. I have gone through a lot of therapy, in and out of hospitals, and they have talked about this a million times. Most people like to throw the blame on to another person that they know will feel confused about it, and take the guilt trip. There may be times when the blame could be right, but most of the time it is for themself not to have to say that they could of been wrong, or they forgot to to it too, so they tell you that you were suppose to of done it, and they did not even tell you about it, but they may say that they did. It is up to you to take the respondsailty for your own actions. You don't have to keep taking the blame, that others are throwing at you. It is your chose on if you do or not. You are so use to it, you are believeing them, and that you have a memory problem. And you may not, but you can create one , just by accepting the blame that they are throwing at you. You should go to an professional and get some help and they will help you understand this blaming game they call it. And how not to let it effect you. They can help you with your self esteem and awareiness of yourself too, so you do not have to keep living this way. So go and get some professional help and talk it out with an therapist.
2007-01-10 18:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people equate forgetfulness to lack of interest in the thing they forgot. many times we forget names of people who we didnt really take an interest in, and we all know this, so these blamers think that is the case.
just a stab in the dark, but seems to feel right
2007-01-11 03:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋