Me and my b/f were out last night and on the way home he stopped by this near by over look. He started talking bout how preety the site was and how much prettyier i was. Then he tryed to make a move on me. I was soo embarresed. Should I dump him or try to forget this hoping that he won't do it again.
He is 2 1/2 years older than me. He is 17, almost 18!!
2007-01-10 18:13:40 · 16 answers · asked by he's my everything <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is obviously wanting something that you do not want. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to. You are in control of your body.
If you are thinking that the relationship may not be good for you, then it isn't. No questions asked. Your heart lets you know things, you just have to follow it.
2007-01-10 18:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im assuming you mean he tried to get in your pants? If so then you are with the wrong guy cause hes almost 18 and thats what a lot of 18 yr old guys do and want so if your not ready then chances are he aint gonna wait. sorry
2007-01-10 18:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont want him to be all up on you then id dump him its almost a garantee he will keep trying until you give in. most not all but most 17 and 18 yr old boys are only after one thing and its not love. your probly better off with out him and all the drama thats bound to fallow if you stay with him
2007-01-10 18:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is your boyfriend you shouldnt be too upset. If you dont want to have any sort of intimate touching with him at all you might as well break up with him. Trust me, as a guy, if he got up the nerve to try once, he'll probably try again.
2007-01-10 18:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're uncomfortable about the position he put you in, it's time to have a serious talk. if you're not ready for the physical aspects of a relationship, it's time to fess up before he does anything else you're not comfortable with. let him know the truth. he should understand and be able to work with you on it...if not, he's not the right guy for you anyways. stay safe.
2007-01-10 18:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you dump him? You said that he was your "boyfriend" right? If he was FORCING you to do something you didn't want to do, then that's ONE thing, but if he was just trying to "smooch" on ya a little bit, then I think that's kinda sweet... Give him a break. He's just a teenage boy..=)
2007-01-10 18:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using a very cheap and lame tactic to try to sweet talk you into sex. If you're not ready for that, then I would suggest finding someone more at your emotional pace.
2007-01-10 18:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been going out? If he was being forceful, dump him and move on, I'm sure you can do better.
-Nav
2007-01-10 18:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nav Patel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey he is a guy and will try this again but if you talk to him and tell him how you feel and he is ok with waiting then things should go fine
2007-01-10 18:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by c.c. c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well explain to him that you arent ready for that if he doesnt understand then breakup with him ... but maybe you just arent ready for a bf that much older than try someone around your age
2007-01-10 18:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by sammie_385 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋