I am a highly affectionate 26-year-old woman who has been in a long-term relationship for almost 2 years with a very sweet, sexy, yet amazingly cautious 26-year-old man. Though I feel that my mate and I are a perfect fit, I would like for him to lead more during our midnight romps in the sack. (Oh...and the morning ones...and those that occur around brunch time...and...well I think you get the idea.) In other words, I would love for him to be more agressive. How do I make that aggressive nature come out? How do I get him to chase me more and/or make him understand that he doesn't have to ask for "it?"
Oh and just so we'll be clear, my man is not experiencing "special problems" in the bedroom, nor are we going through any drama in our relationship. I just want him to be less cautious when he wants to be with me.
2007-01-10 17:51:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay...after reading some of the answers I have received I think I should mention that I have expressed my feelings to him. There have been times where he has taken the lead, but for some reason, it is always short-lived and he turns back into the cautious young man.
2007-01-10 18:00:52 · update #1
I doubt you could handle it but, cut him off until his urges take over and he has to have it and has no other choice but, to try to take it from you in a gentle kind of way. Walk around nude every chance you get and then, don't give him any no matter what, until he gets to the point that you are looking for.
2007-01-10 17:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe be really flirty and have something real sexy on. Or try to have little things like a shirt that opens and he can see down every time you bend over, or a little tease that he can see, but you act like you do not really know about while flirting a lot. He is obviously a gentleman and there are not a lot out there. Have you ever just tried to tell him what you want from him. He might want to be more aggressive but think this is the way you want it and how he should be with his women.
2007-01-10 18:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 23:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a good sexual relationship. If you want to be the one being ravaged tell him it's your fantacy.
2007-01-10 17:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take him out in the woods,maybee to a campground,and seduce him! Maybe he will *** around!
2007-01-10 18:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're too easy... ever heard the expression... "It's not the kill... it's the thrill of the chase."""Trying playing hard to get and see what you get... good luck
2007-01-10 17:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Traynor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to approach him be sexy and creative! tease him a lil! Good luck
2007-01-10 17:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by socalgal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
communicate exactly that to him...i bet there will be some changes for the better
2007-01-10 17:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by majickspocketpc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to be more aggressive..
Ask him to take the lead...
Tell him you like it...
2007-01-10 17:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you telling us ...try telling him and maybe you'll get your hair tugged on from behind
2007-01-10 17:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋