when i find that others are also in good relation with my friend,i can't levy the unhappiness.i feel sad when my friend talks to others.i can't do anyting if such things happen....
2007-01-10 17:17:18 · 3 answers · asked by prem j 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Is He/She the only person you can really rely on? Is your freind the only one who really listens? If you answered Yes! to bot of these questions, then this is most likely one of the reasons. Another question is: Other friends in your past, Have they ever been dishonest, hateful, ungrateful of your friendship, stopped being your friend because of another person, and/or put you down to others? If the answer is Yes! to any/all of these questions then tis is the problem. You have to stop being insecure about friendship with others. If they are truly your friends then they will always be there for you no matter who else comes into their life or your life. The only real friend you need is YOURSELF! If you don't like yourself then you will never be able to let anyone else like you either! As long as you down on yourself everyone else is going to do the same!!!
2007-01-10 17:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by no.#1 Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm....perhaps, you feel that your friend is totally yours.
i used to be in that situation. i think, i shouldn't have that kind of feeling. who are you to stop him from talking to others?
hehe.. r u falling in love with ur friend?? 1 thing, don control over him/her...otherwise, u'll regret!!people are free to talk as talking is the basic way of communication for normals...
think positive, okay! = )
2007-01-10 17:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by anas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend is allowed to speak to others besides you......
you sound like you are a little obsessive-compulsive to me.
i think you should see a shrink
2007-01-10 18:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness #1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋