The inspiration that I (a young Muslim female) can get form one of the most honorable men in history (Muhammad, peace be upon him) is too much for your blind heart, blind mind, blind eyes to understand and respect.
We're all aware that he married a young girl (who's age is NOT at all confirmed by any Islamic teachings and seems to vary from 9 - 14 or something). Firstly, you are refusing to understand the history of Muhammad's time, and you're also refusing to understand the biology of a female. What a 6-14 yr old female looks, acts, grows like TODAY is NOT comparable to the females of the 7th century A.D. Yes, he was much, much older than her, but do you know how common marrying a young girl was back then? And it's common today as well. You're not aware of this, obviously, because your eyes and mind have been shut tightly by the American media and other anti-Islamic sources so much that you have let them think for you and don't realize that you've submitted yourself to ignorance. I'm seriously sorry for you and sincerely pray for your guidance and for God to have mercy on you.
By the way, this beautiful man (Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him) who's honor you're trying VERY hard to harm (again, in VAIN), taught:
"Fear Allah (God) regarding women. Verily you have married them with the trust of Allah, and made their bodies lawful with the word of Allah. You have got (rights) over them, and they have got (rights) over you in respect of their food and clothing according to your means."
He also taught:
"Among my followers, the best of men are those who are best to their wives, and the best of women are those who are best to their husbands. To each of such women is set down a reward equivalent to the reward of a thousand martyrs. Among my followers, again, the best of women are those who assist their husbands in their work, and love them dearly for everything, save what is a transgression of Allah's laws."
And what about THIS:
Once, a woman came to the Prophet with a complaint against her husband. He told her: "There is no woman who removes something to replace it in its proper place, with a view to tidying her husband's house, but that Allah sets it down as a virtue for her. Nor is there a man who walks with his wife hand-in-hand, but that Allah sets it down as a virtue for him; and if he puts his arm round her shoulder in love, his virtue is increased tenfold."
The Quran (Holy Book that Muslims should turn to for guidance) admonishes those men who oppress or ill-treat women:
"O you (men) who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should you treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the dowry you have given them - except when they have become guilty of open lewdness. On the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If you take a dislike to them, it may be that you dislike something and Allah will bring about through it a great deal of good" (4:19).
The Prophet of Islam (peace be upon him) said, "Women are the twin halves of men." The Qur'an emphasizes the essential unity of men and women in a most beautiful simile:
"They (your wives) are your garment and you are a garment for them" (Quran, 2:187)
"And among His signs is this, that He has created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between you. Verily in that are signs for those who reflect" (Quran, 30:21).
THIS is why I'm a Muslim, you see. Because I'm not judged based on my womanhood, but I'm judged on my good deeds and my spirituality level.
Oh, since this is a new year and some people tend to set for themselves New Year's Resolution, I'd STRONGLY suggest for you to have "Respect others' beliefs!" as one of yours. Try it; it'll make YOU happy.
Peace and God's blessings and mercy be upon you!
2007-01-11 13:39:09
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answered by ♡♥ sHaNu ♥♡ 4
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My recommendation will differ relying to your age. How younger are you? and with Allah's support, if you do not get married now or to that man, then you'll be able to nonetheless marry an similarly well or greater muslim guy. Dear sister, I do not feel google and remark is a ideal technique to get to grasp him. People act another way while they're round peers than while with loved ones. As for google, I am greater than definite that you just did not discover a lot approximately him from that. You might ought to meet him (with a wali of direction) and have you ever wali ask round approximately him to verify his individual. If you're sixteen, you're too younger to get married. If you're 17, I nonetheless advise you wait. 18 remains to be younger. 19 is ok however now not prime. I fear that if you happen to get married this younger that lifestyles will not be so joyful for you later. What turns out so high-quality now isn't how it's genuinely generally. Really, I might watch for marriage if I had been you. Don't simply marry this man out of fear he's the one well man you'll be equipped to discover as that's now not real.
2016-09-03 20:20:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Excellent point. Says a lot about the entire religion and culture. One of the hardest things about being a Christian is that we are called to pray for and love those who we disagree so strongly with. God wishes that no one should perish--no not one. That includes Muslims.
Unfortunately, I'm at a complete loss as to how to reach these lost souls. Perhaps someone coming out of that religion would have enough understanding to start a powerful ministry and save others, though.
2007-01-10 17:31:22
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answered by lorilou 3
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You're not an ex-Muslim,,,, you're nothing but a lier, but still, I will answer this question of your
Prophet Mohamed (prayers & peace be upon him) DID NOT molest a 9-year old girl...It was public marriage, and NO ONE SAID that he had sexual intercourse with her
the idea behind this marriage is that She was to tell people about the Prophet's words after He'd passed away
DId you understand now? Would you go find something else to try to mock, cause you're never getting Islam...
2007-01-10 17:14:38
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answered by AG 4
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1.Girl n Boys Shuld be marry at the age of puberty or after that period thats the only inspiration get the young girls n boys.
2.as u knnow that age of puberty different 4 girls n boys and depend upon climate condition and nutrition.
3.age of Aisha when she goes with the Muhamaad is not clear n it differ between 9-13 years.
any other clearance do u want more. then go further.
2007-01-10 17:21:59
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answered by Leo H 4
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Going around impersonating a Muslim is an inspiration to no one,You can't even spell Muhammad let alone inspiration.
I'm proud of who i am i'm not the one impersonating a faith i am not fool lol
2007-01-10 17:09:18
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answered by Sherzade 5
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That the religion of Islam is not about peace as some have suggested, but about world domination through any means necessary.
2007-01-10 17:07:49
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answered by daddyspanksalot 5
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FIRST OF ALL DON'T EVER INSULT PROPHET MOHAMED(PBUH) ITS A TABOO
if your genies mind cant under stand something you can search and know every thing have reason but try to search and know
PROUDLY MUSLIM WOMAN
2007-01-10 17:13:51
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answered by Anonymous
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AISHA BINT ABU BAKR WAS 17-20 YEARS OLD WHEN THEY MARRIED. IT IS RECOREDED IN ALL FACTUAL BIOGRPHIES OF PROPHET MUHMMAD AND I HAVE RESEARCHED IT AND THE DATES AND FACTUAL INFORMATION FROM VARIOUS SOURCES SHOWS IT.
2007-01-10 20:35:39
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answered by Muse 4
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How did you live to tell us about this? I'm so happy you were not killed by other muslims for leaving your religion.
2007-01-10 17:10:06
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answered by Anonymous
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