Personally I believe I'm a very nice guy. I'm not rude or act condescendingly towards the ladies. I am not stuck up and I like to have fun when necessary. I have been told by a few girls that I'm cute and attractive. Not all of them are my friends by the way. I'm not really shy either. I'm not extremely outgoing to the point where I'm just annoying. And I also dont mind opening up to someone after I've known them for a while. So please someone tell me what I can be leaving out. It frustrates me and gets me down sometimes.
2007-01-10 16:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just for the record for the people that have answered my question and are going to, I already have a nice car. 2006 350z with plenty of modifications. Its my hobby. I also go to school too.
2007-01-10 16:58:34 · update #1
As per that one answer that asked if I am fat. I go to the gym at least 4 times a week. Ive got a good build. Muscles and Abs without looking like a monster like Schwarzenegger in his Prime.
2007-01-10 17:46:03 · update #2
because you are looking....just let it happen.
2007-01-10 16:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by detroit al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one should it be necessary to have fun? Cute and attractive is good, but a few may think you are already taken. We like confident men... not shy...not annoying...but out going is good. I am not saying share your life story, but how long is a while before you open up, cause if we get bored we move on. Well at least some of us used to. We also like a bit of attention, affection, What kind of women are you dating, perhaps it's not you...or perhaps you are looking at the wrong women, let me guess you are looking at work and the bar...I am trying to figure out where we were all mislead to thinking Mr. or Mrs. Right was at wrong place at the wrong timeat the same time we were. but as a watched pot never boils...usually we don't find what we are looking for...and when we do it is always in the last place we looked...so stop looking and eventually it will pop up. How is the sense of humor? Enjoy being single for the time being because some day you will get hitched the bedroom will get boring and as Eddie Murphy put it you'll be eating the same ol cracker everyday. Then she'll demand half. Think of yourself as lucky right now and pretty soon they'll be coming out of the woodworks for you. Good Luck in your wait
2007-01-11 01:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to be more forward and ask out more ladies. you can't hit a home run without first swinging the bat!! maybe you'll strike out a couple times, but eventually you'll find somebody.
also, go to places where you can meet people. go to a friend's party, get a second part time job where you can meet people of your own age. once you get a date, just quit (that's what i did, lol)
2007-01-11 00:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is you sound normal, just your everyday guy, need to have a really cool hobby, or a hot car or be rolling in money. Average guys need something else to get the girl, where someone who is really hot doesn't.
2007-01-11 00:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that the reason why it hard to find a relationship, because you looking to hard take your time! each enjoy yourself, when it time for you to find the special one that sure be in your life it will come stop trying to make it happen! it not you it just not time yet!
2007-01-11 00:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by keep_it_smileing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe deep down your afraid to have one, because of all the broken relationships that are going on out there. I don't know.
2007-01-11 00:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, cute guy! It is cause your looking for it. When you are not looking they just seem to come. Good Luck
2007-01-11 00:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it because you're really fat
most girls dont like fat guys
2007-01-11 01:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by luv ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just that you havnt made a move on someone, can you recall a time when you've made a move...?
2007-01-11 00:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting your time, nobody gives a damn if you are miserable, so you might as well be happy...is there as girl you like? if so ask her out. don't look back!!!!!! don't question yourself !!!!! ASK HER OUT !!!!!!!! PERIOD
2007-01-11 01:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't seem desperate, and brush your teeth.
2007-01-11 00:53:13 · answer #11 · answered by kimmys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋