Have you ever wondered why women are so jealous of each other?

Question

A lady friend of mine when we go out will say," Look at her
I hate her, she walks like she is something". I have also noticed that when men cheat on their women, who does
the women go after and attack. The other women of course,
while the boy friend gets off the hook. Women love to put each
other down, behind each others back. Every time I had anything good to say about a woman to another, the other woman would come back with something bad to say. But men ,we pat each other on the shoulder, and revel in each
other's success. You want find a jealous bone in us.

Answer 1

That's a good question. I always wonder why we women are like that. I wish I wasn't like that, but I am. Most girls I know are like that. My sister and I are always talking about other girls we see. And your right.....when my boyfriend cheated on me, I instantly blamed the b*tch. I don't know why, but I did. I agree with the person above. I think we are programmed to think like that. Hopefully, there is hope for us.

Answer 2

Thats a lie! My boyfriend threatens to hurt every man that comes within 5 feet of me. The other day a guy called me pretty and he went nuts. He's always asking, "Do you think he looks good?". I think that guys are just as jealous as girls are, they just are better at hiding it. Girls are very open with their emotions, have been since the beginning of time. But it is human nature to want to protect yourself, and build yourself up so that you look better then someone of the same sex. Expecially when you are with that specific person, because that is like gaurding your property. I don't put down other people, because I know it makes me look bad in the long run. But here is a hint...girls don't like it when you compliment another girl to them. I know...its sucks, but its just a way of life.

Answer 3

It really just depends on people. There are certain kinds of women who attack the other women when they are in jealousy...however...there are those that don't.

Personally, I don't get jealous over girls because my bf picked them over me. However...I would despise them..if I feel as if they are inferior to me in certain ways.

A good example...when i was going out with my bf...he went on a vacation and met his old friend..and he started liking her. Knowing her personality...she's self-centered and is a slut...so it just makes me mad that he would pick someone like that over me...

but he never went out with her...we broke up for two months and he apologized and he wanted me back. but recently i broke up with him because we don't understand each other...we have different views...and now..he's with another girl...and i still like him a lot...and it hurts me a lot seeing them together...but somehow...i like this girl. she seems pretty, her personality is cute, she's friendly, and very joyful. Hence, i'm not jealous of her. I actually envy her. and even tho i still like him...i think he made a great decision this time...to like her unlike the other girl.

and personally...if my bf cheated on me...i'm not going after the girl. that's stupidity...if he cheated on me...he should be held responsible...however...i would hate that girl...for hurting me so bad...but it takes two to make things happen...if he had not stopped it...or didnt' attempt to...then i can't defend him myself...i wouldn't go after the girl..i'd just leave him...and hate him...it's stupid to show ur anger on another person wen the person hurting u is actually the guy u like.

altogether...it really just depends on the person

Answer 4

It's just in women's nature, and I don't know why. But there are a select few who are kind all around and don't think this way, and those are the ones to pursue for a relationship. At least there is some hope out there :)

Answer 5

Well, a woman can have a legitimate reason to be jealous of another woman, but I think it's mostly insecurity. The more insecure someone is the more cutting others down makes them feel not as bad. Insecurity sucks.

Answer 6

Ever notice you don't see naked guys on TV! But women are plastered all over it..we are compared to one another all the time. Men are not. If it was you on the TV you would have something to be jealous of too.

Answer 7

Personally, I only get jealous when I think the girl is more attractive than me but I will admit when I see a woman who is pretty or hott.

Answer 8

of direction no longer all women folk, how are you able to speak for all adult adult males? in case you question me, your the guy who's bitching and moaning~ i'm no longer jealous nor aggressive in direction of different women folk, it particularly is merely ridiculous. additionally, all the individuals who answer this and say that's genuine, properly that's barely genuine of their microcosm. you have a great form of starting to be to do, of course~

Answer 9

I don't know why ,but if they had as many sticking outta them as they had stuck in them they'd look like a porcupine.

Answer 10

I don't know. I think we're programmed to think that way. It's all about competition.