They always say, "running away from your problems never fixes anything", well you can't fix me. I am beyond repair. No, I'm not abused, No, my daddy doesn't touch me at night, and No, my mom's not on drugs. But I have problems of my own and its effecting my family. Do you think this is right for me?
2007-01-10 16:36:53 · 24 answers · asked by yeayeahyea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh and I have faced my problems, I have broken down, and nothing, I mean nothing helped. God, don't get me started and juss ahh.
2007-01-10 16:43:48 · update #1
Okay, firstly I'm sick of you people telling me praying will help, because it won't. Second, I realize I'm not abused and I do have a plan IF I do run away. 'Kay? Thrid, I have far too many 'problems' for meh to put.
2007-01-10 17:29:08 · update #2
dont bother praying. . its crap, its like wishing, only you can 'fix' yourself. i dont know what your problem is, but only you can decide how strong you want to be,
i hope you dont run away, it creates a whole new batch of serious problems, maybe you might consider just getting away for a short time, that way you can have the you time and still be relatively safe.
good luck
2007-01-11 03:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two options running or not running
Running:
Had an aunt who ran away from home when she was 16, she survived and is very happy. You have to have a really really good plan and know exactly how to look after yourself. You will need support, if you get stuck be prepared to ring a friend or even your parents. You will also need a good job to pay for everything you need. You also need to be able to be prepared if your parents become ashamed of you.
Staying:
Staying shows you are strong, and you will become a stronger person for doing it. Try to talk to your parents about your issues, or perhaps you could talk to your doctor or find a counceller that might help you resolve some of the problems that you have. If it's to do with your parents, some councillers invite you to all come in and have some sessions to resolve, discuss and make compromises.
If you are still at school you need a good home, if you could wait until you have finished school then you will be more mature, independent and capable of making your own choices.
2007-01-11 03:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ Rachel ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you've faced your problems but, why would you run away from home? Is this where your problems are or you just want to be able to do things your way? Sounds to me like you don't like yourself and you don't know why. Write down your problems, then write down some solutions to your problems if they can be fixed. The ones you truly can't fix don't worry about because, it's out of your control and you need not worry about them. I hope you will try to do the right thing and if you need help, don't be afraid to ask somebody you trust for help. Communication can make a difference!
2007-01-11 01:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you run away then you put more rocks into that already overloaded backpack. Then you have to worry about, where to go how to stay warm and dry, how to get your next meal, how to hide from the people that love you that you left behind. No matter what the problem is believe me, I am sure it could be worse. Sometimes I feel the same way and then I ask myself " How bad is this problem, is it worth all the drama I am making over it?, am I going to make it worse if I run?" Then I realize how silly I am being over something so small. Set down, just for a second, take a deep breath, picture Jesus, thank him for giving you that breath, and then ask him to help you. He will. Maybe not when you open your eyes but rest assure, he is working on it. Please take care. Please dont run. God Bless You.
2007-01-11 01:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage and have some problems and if you are living with you parents, yes it is also their problem too.
How are you going to solve your problems if you don't share them with your parents? How is anyone suppose to know what your problems are to help you. Do you think you can fix them? Because if you do think like that, then they would have been fixed already.
Running away will not help you. It will just cause you to feel more pain in your life. It will not fix anything, but make things worse for you. It will only teach you to learn the hard way, if that's what you want.
If you really want to do the right thing, stay home and fix your problems with yourself, what ever they are. You are not super woman you know! If it is affecting your family, do no more harm...fix them and you will be much happier with yourself, but first you need to love yourself, then you will start to care. (smile)
Things can't happen over night!
2007-01-11 00:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie running away like you said doesn't solve anything, it's dog eat dog out there, and the only people who can help you without asking for something back is your family and friends, those people you grew knowing, trusting and loving, if they love you back the should try working the problems with you, be honest with yourself and to them
If you mess up good, the milk has been split already, so grab a mop and a bucket and start cleaning up, because if you start running you won't stop.
Talk to your parents, they were young at one point in life, l think they can work something with you.
take care
2007-01-11 00:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by deebo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right and so everyone else, running away isnt going to help. You need to confide in someone who you can trust. Maybe a friend, but not your family. They are already too involved. If you dont have a friend who you can trust, speak to your parents about going to a support group or even go to someone else, a neighbour maybe who can get you involved in something of the sort. The main thing is that you need to start talking about whats going on with you. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you!
2007-01-11 01:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Charlene B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! To many crazy people out there that prey on young girls or boys that run away from home. Would you want to put your parents through that hell. Nothing is ever worth run away, problems can be worked through and dealt with. A dead runaway can't work on anything. Just remember that there is always someone that loves you whether or not you think they do or not.
2007-01-11 00:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by ntfamily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, running away is NOT the right thing to do. Your problems will simply follow you. And there's no such word as CAN'T. Any problem can be 'fixed' if one makes that choice to make the repair. And who knows, if it's actually something that needs fixing.....WHO has convinced you that you have a problems in the first place???
2007-01-11 01:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Running away never fixes ANY problem. It makes it worse and builds up the problem till you break down. Don't do it.
Do this:
--Think about every thing that is going on
--Write it down
-- Talk to someone you can trust
-- Try to fix each problem step by step, if you can't by yourself or its just problems with your family that you can't change, I suggest really talking to an adult or somebody you truly trust, there must be someone.
Good Luck
Hope All Ends Up Well
Love,
Sam
2007-01-11 00:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by lalala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋