To all women...I get aproached by women all the time, but I am to shy to actually do sometimg about it..help..

Question

I often go to the clubs, parties, and get togethers and get aproached by women, I often get really shy and get sort of tung-tied. I read the signs pretty easilly, but responding to them is alway a problem.... At parties, I often notice a girl that has a eye on me...or a friends walks up to me and says that she does have an eye on me, but yet again.....to shy to actually walk up to her.....tell me what should I do to get over this...

Answer 1

I use to have the same problem only I am a girl and guys would all the time aproach and I would shy away. I found it very hard to have a conversation, or even look guys in the eye. Many many many guys would ask why I was so shy. I didn't have the answer. Heck if I did I was to shy to answer them. lol Anyways, I just continued to go to parties ect..... until I found someone who was willing to take there time with me and find out more about the "shy me." You will too. Just keep going to parties and keep trying, even if you do get tongue tied. Some girls may find that very cute. I would.

Answer 2

The only way to really get over being shy is to just do it. It will be hard at first but will get easier. If you are a popular guy and goodlooking I can't imagine that you have been rejected to many times so give it a try. The worst thing that could happen is that she says she is not interested. And there is more than one woman in the world. Good luck.

Answer 3

Say hi and take it from there, chances are that the rest of the conversation will flow smoothly for the most part.

This will get better with practice and experience. The fear will go away to a certain extent but will always be there.

You just have to get in the game and learn how to play.

Answer 4

You have to get over this shyness part.Women are human after all. they wont eat you up.Make an eye to eye contact and start with a simple conversation,and you will gain confidence soon.