it's kinda awkward when we go on aim and neither of us talk to each other. plus i need to let him miss me. should i just make myself invisible for like a month or 2? Or just dont talk to him on aim?
PS:i definitely dont call him, write to him or anything like that. Aim is the most akward thing.
2007-01-10 16:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about working on getting yourself a life, and not worrying what goes on in your ex's head? He's an ex for a reason, get over it and look for something new.
2007-01-10 16:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're broken up. Move on. He's not talking to because he's trying to move on. You can't determine what he's thinking and if he wants to get back with you, then you'll have to be patient and not set any time limits. Live your life and don't worry about becoming invisible. If he sees you as happy and free, he may be inclined to see you again. Hiding out will only prove to him that you're miserable and a wet rag. Try your best to start moving on just in case he doesn't want to get back together.
You making him "miss you" may backfire though because the longer it goes, the more he's over you. I would talk to him and see if there is a possibility to get back together if you really want to.
2007-01-11 00:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I'm going through the SAME THING right now. My bf broke up with me and he's the only one I ever talked to on AIM anyways. I just sit there and hope that he'll IM me. Just hold back the urge to IM him. I know it's hard. But he sees your sn on there. What might help, put up away messages if you want to kind of send him a message. You know he'll read them. For example, I put up song lyrics that describe how I'm feeling, and I know it makes him feel guilty about dumping me.
Hang in there, I'm with ya!
2007-01-11 00:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say to like go invisible for a week or two and then after that go visible and then see if he IM's you.
See what happens
Personally I don't fall for the old miss me routine.
2007-01-11 00:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Hmmm Andrew ♣ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make your self invisable...then your keeping all the other guys away from you and you wont be able to talk to them....i was in this same situation....dont block him but dont im him first either...if he i.ms you just be causal when you talk to him dont make it seem like you still want him make it seem like you have a life and you have moved on to bigger and better things...it helped me out....hit me up if you wanna know more or anything
2007-01-11 00:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Baby J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep it simple it wll be awkward for both of you, since you
just broke up and you see each other. but let it go and move
on, and for makiing him miss you. you dont need to play games
just move on. think like this his lost not yours.
2007-01-11 00:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no its hard to get over a x. but dont shut him out. if ya do that will make him think ur really upset over it. (even if you are) just make him think you dont care. dont worrie you'll be ok
2007-01-11 00:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't im him. he might wanna talk to u so don't block him or anything
2007-01-11 00:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is thinking the same things.
2007-01-11 00:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋