i dated this guy for a long time and then we kind of drifted apart, however we still have feelings....strong feelings for each other... well, we recently started talking again, and we did a few things, and he has a gf... i feel HORRIBLE for what i did... what should i do... i know i cant do that again, but i feel like i should tell his gf, and although i deserve it i dont want her to hate me... help!
2007-01-10 16:11:47 · 7 answers · asked by crazy_music123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should confront this boy about what you guys did, and if it meant anything. If it did mean anything to him, and he still really has feelings for you, he'll drop the other girl and then you don't have to worry about telling this girl what you did with her boyfriend. If he doesnt want to leave her, you should definately tell her. The thing is, many boys like to play these kinds of things, he'll make 2 girls think he likes both of them and fool around with them both for the pleasure. Bottom line, if he wants you more than he wants her he'll leave her. If he doesn't, you need to tell this other girl before she gets her heartbroken. Just put yourself in her shoes and think about it.
2007-01-10 16:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did the two of you do? Hang out or more like make out? Or did you to sleep together? If it's one of the last two I be worried because if he do something like that with the gf he has now what would stop him from doing that if he was your bf. I would say just let him be dont do stuff with him anymore and move on. As for his gf if you dont know her then I wouldnt tell her. Its not your place. But if she was a friend or someone you knew then it be a different story. Hope this helps
2007-01-11 00:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by B to the E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am kinda in the samething right now myself but i really feel like i love him but back to your question i think that if anything happened it is his job to tell her and if he really loves her he would not have done what he did there is no blame on you he is a grown man and makes his own choises but if you really feel like she should know what happened you need to talk to him and see how he feels and at most it will show you what type of person he is
2007-01-11 01:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by c.c. c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you dont want to do what ever you did anymore, and keep the whole thing on the down low.
2007-01-11 00:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you to tell her, it's up to him. Just don't do anything else with him and stay away from him. Forgive yourself and move on from him.
2007-01-11 00:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do nothing but leave him along, he the one that
has a girfriend, he the one that need to come clean to her,
butjust move on and learn from this.
2007-01-11 00:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her but he will have to make a discision
2007-01-11 00:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋