How would you handle this?

Question

Should I add my friend's bro. to mysace as a buddy? He is the man I have been in love with for a while-and he was kind of suspicious, but could never comfirm it. My friend to this day never knew my feelings never stopped for him; instead the kept growing. I am slowly learning to let go. He is 23 , I' m 19. He will be graduating this year and becoming an officer-so I doubt he'll have time for this type of thing. I feel like time is running out, and I do want to be his friend him-but at the same time I don't. What should I do? ...I'm sure he won't reject me, and he would obviously see my info. Thanks.

Answer 1

Add him, it really isn't a big deal at all. And while you're at it, think of a clever way to let him know how you feel. What have you got to lose? I'm a pretty traditional guy, but some fellas just need a little extra encouragement. Just because he's going to be an officer doesn't mean he's an ultra-confident ladies man. Good luck!

Answer 2

The only way you will know is telling him, but don't give him to much trust or give him reasons for him to use that feeling that you have an play with you. If you tell him, see his reaction and his intentions, and don't make more moves let him, if he is interested in make the next moves.

Answer 3

Ask him if he wants to go for coffee . . .
You will get the chance to talk about a lot of stuff and MAYBE
Things will click and something more fun will be scheduled for the next time !
But if they don't click, then there won't be any big pressure thing to stress about, but you have to give it a shot.

Answer 4

Just tell him how you feel.Whta's the worst that could happen.If he rejects you,at least you won't be spending the rest of your life wondering what if.

Answer 5

He's a friend and it doesn't make sense for you not to add him.

Answer 6

Just go with it and have fun! Don't take it so seriously.