how can i move on from an exbf. okay it been like 3years . and i still cant find anyone . he just moved on fast from me. what i would like to know . how come i cant find and one good?
2007-01-10 15:19:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy being single. Meet new friends, go out, and have fun! Use this time to get to know yourself as an individual.
2007-01-10 15:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi J, first u must admit that if u leave yr current bf there must be a good reason/s for doing that, right? Otherwise, u might have found someone better.
Whichever view u look at, u sounded quite young. Heard of the saying goes,"good relationship is best comes naturally rather than going for it!" If u choose to leave yr bf, u must be sure that something between both of u strongly doesn't click. And choosing to quit a relationship means making a more firm decision and deciding what yr future would be. As I say, good relationship comes by when u r least expecting. And BTW don't just jump into a relationship simply b'cos u just need 1 guy beside u! U definitely regret later when the right one comes along. However, how long will yr prince charming will come, only God knows. So, try to move on by enriching yr self in some hobby or concentrate in yr studies etc which would be more rewarding than just waiting for the guy to appear.
Well, u never know, u may meet yr Mr right at the photography course u took up! :-)
Cheers, life is good!
2007-01-10 23:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by RenRen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out and about and explore the different possibilities of future boyfriends, go to some clubs or arcades or anywhere kids your age hang out and be gutsy- dress like you mean business and don't be shy- if you see a guy you like then go up to him and ask him something like " Hey what's that cologne your wearing I really like it" or something along those lines! And not every guy has to be a possible boyfriend- guys can be be best friends to a girl just as well as another girl, sometimes that makes it possible to become better at being a couple than starting out as one! Be patient and enjoy yourself while looking!
2007-01-10 23:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by buffster06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gotta put up a sign so to speak . its called the hello sign
link that with a smile and a i am >>>>>>> and you are?
do that 12 times a week for 3 weeks and eat lots of fiber and you will find mr future . if not in 3 weeks no matter you will have a great time looking .
2007-01-10 23:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your trying to find someone like him. or maybe your trying too hard? And most likely you shouldn't try be looking for someone like him. someone different. you never know what can happen until you take a chance. Life is full of choices, but you have to make your own desicion in the end. good luck! you will find that special guy one day.
2007-01-10 23:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel It's been a while since mine also. But what I did was pray about it, ask the Lord to bring you someone new and he will. And he will remove the old one at the same time. That's what he did for me. The Lord is there for you always.
2007-01-10 23:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to hunt for a good one. Most of us are spoken for. But rest assured...there's more out there. The old proverb states
" you have to kiss a lot of toads, before you find a prince" Good luck on your hunt.
2007-01-10 23:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become the goddess that you are!
like the girl in the first answer said, go to a club and flaunt your stuff.
act like you're the hottest girl in the room, and believe it yourself!
guys will be coming in real soon!
2007-01-10 23:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't you should just have fun and live your life and i think someone will come to you...things happen when you least expect it to so therefore don't expect anyone....make sure you look good when you step out the house....:)
2007-01-10 23:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by ...Jess....:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuor setting your starndards to high plus u still want him back get over him and find some other guy
2007-01-10 23:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by mikey b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋