Was it guilt that made him do this...?

Question

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilt for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?

Answer 1

sounds like a simular situation to me... me and my ex are now best friends... i think that he just wants to b friends, if u want to b his friend then sure ask him out 4 coffee... besides who knows what the future holds... mayb u will try again with the relationship later but then mayb u will b great friends... Good luck =]

Answer 2

Honey, he seems bored and just wanted to do something. Everyonce in a blue moon they will think of you and basiclly say hi or hang out once. Most male wants boody before marriage. He probably lost interest because he doesn't know if he could live up to the hype. Let him go. I wouldn't waste my time on him.

Answer 3

Odd i seen this same question three other times, maybe im confused....I wouldn't bother meeting up with him, why waste your time...

Answer 4

Here's the question you need to answer....WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO SEE HIM?? move on, and next time he calls you say hey, name this tune....CLICK! cut that leash girl!