I feel so ugly... yet....?

Question

i have tons of friends (geeks AND populars) and i've had 5 long lasting relationships........ y cant i see what everyone else sees???? how can i stop being such a drama queen an actually accept myself?????????

Answer 1

well just go look in a mirror and laugh at yourself. laugh at what u think about yourself. laugh at how much of a drama queen u are. just laugh it off and u wont have to worry. good luck to u

Answer 2

Sounds like you're one of those loosers who thinks of people by categorizing them into "geeks" and "populars", and usually try to hang out with who you think is the latter, yet they don't really accept you. Or, you're in Junior High. About the relationships, it doesnt matter how many you have, because just because you've had that many means nothing, because they could be shallow empty relationships with ugly boys. You aren't just ugly on the outside, you have a terribly ugly inside.

Answer 3

Condition your mind to think that if you don't accept your good appearance, you'll soon loose it. That usually does the trick.

I think what you need is confidence. No one can do it for you. Besides, even if you were ugly, whats that to anyone else? U are u and your gonna make the best of it. Life is too short to be worried about what others think about your appearance or even what you think. There's more to life than looking good. Most of the people who have the greatest fun are not those who really look good. Take care. Nats

Answer 4

if you don't like yourself, you can always mold yourself to your liking. the reason you don't like yourself and others do is because you see all your flaws, and no one else does. you know all your flaws and you are your worse critic so you are going to be tough on yourself and how you look. if everyone else thinks you look great and you can't see it, then just look again. go buy some new clothes you think your eyes glow in or that one lipgloss that makes you shine and try to look good for yourself when you are getting ready. compliment yourself and smile and sooner or later you will start to like yourself, im sure. thats my opinion, hope it helps - good luck!

Answer 5

Positive thinking. Maybe you can try the mirror trick. Look at yourself and tell yourself how pretty you are. When I'm feeling down about myself I get made up. It helps.

Answer 6

its a physiological thing, It really can't be helped.. It's basic insecurities a lot of people have.. you will most likely come to realize that you are perfectly ok, besides in 20 years every one is gonna loose their shape anyways =/ sad but true.. no sense in worrying about it, just enjoy it while you have it.

Answer 7

I have noticed that when I don't feel good. I don't look good. in the mirror.when I feel good I look good.and people can see the difference. they don't think I look good when I don't feel good. so feel good about yourself. have confidence. have faith. read some positive thinking books.excersize makes me feel better. eat right. always tell yourself you fine and OK and you will be. you are what you think. your brain will believe anything you tell it. so tell it good stuff. have a good attitude. I wish you the best.

Answer 8

Insecurity is within yourself. You should believe you are beautiful but, it could be because of low-self esteem when you are not around your friends. If people tell you that you are pretty then it must be true.

Answer 9

wow, first of all, get a glimpse of what you have inside and not whats on the outside - just remember your looks will change over time, so try to keep your personality

Answer 10

you cannot love anyone else truly until you love yourself, good luck, it took me a long time to really love myself