I am 15 years old and i am very shy. I like this girl but she is popular and i am not. She is in some of the same classes as me but i can't even look at her. Everyone knows i like her except her and herfriends. I don't how to ask her out. So could someone please help me out. If i don't ask her soon i will probably lose her. I want to ask her out but no one will help me. My friends say to do it mysekf because that is something i need to face up tobut i am too shy. So how does a shy kid ask a girl out. Just wondering please help me. And how do i get her away from her friends to tell her.
2007-01-10 15:06:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you are selling yourself short, you are not popular because u say you are not popular. Start feeling better about yourself. If you continue to feel everyone is better then you, you will end up a lonely person. Tell yourself that over and over why it is important to be with her and don't put yourself down.
well for starters.... the fact that she is in some of your classes helps. Ask her if you can borrow something like a pencil, it gives you a second chance to talk to her if you chicken out the first time. Don't show that you are shy, be forward but be yourself. baby steps. Once you get the nerve to ask her for a pencil, take it one step further and ask for help with a question. Ask for her book to copy some notes anything. If she turns you down for a pencil...then you know she is a B#$%@ and you need not worry. If she turns out to be as awesome as you think ask her out for a date or lunch. You never know... she may be interest in you.
Good luck!!
2007-01-10 15:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound exactly like me. well the thing is u need to deal with it. u should ask her out face to face or give her a note. just dont get any friends involved or everybody will know about it. just ask her that u need to talk to her for a second and u'll get her away from her friends. hope she says yes. good luck to u
2007-01-10 23:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing her a note, signing it, and putting it in her locker. That way, you don't have to directly speak to her and you have time to think about exactly what you want to say. However, it's just been my experience that popular girls don't do anything but try to humiliate unpopular guys in high school. Good luck, maybe she isn't the shallow type.
2007-01-10 23:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to do it yourself, your friends are right. Just ask her if she would be interested in hangiing out after school... if she is not interested you will be able to tell. Maybe the best way is to just try to become friends with her. Start to talk to her in school, find out what she likes and maybe you will find out you have things in common.
If she blows you off then its not even worth it... you are young- trust me as you grow up you will see there are lots of girls out there. Once you hit college, popularity in middle school/ high school has nothing to do with it!
2007-01-10 23:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by marienb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and ask tell her you need help with something that you dont get in one of the classes you have together. then just simply ask her out on a date. you really have nothin to loose. bc if you never ask then you'll be mad at yourself for never asking. and if she says no then at least you willl have gotten some experience with askin a girl out.
2007-01-10 23:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friend are right. you need to do it yourself... its very simple man. first do you know her well?and does she know you much? if yes, then when she's alone, go talk to her. if you are too shy to ask her out, what the heck are you going to do even if you two go out? just not talk or something? if she's with friends, ask her to go somewhere quiet and ask her? i guess. you need to have courage. if you don't ask her, you'll probably regret. =D
2007-01-10 23:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by tmackun135 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRITE HER A NOTE FROM A SECRET ADMIRER!!!!!!!!!!!!
dont be shy it wont help at all on the first date how would you talk to her when she asked you to pass the popcorn?
2007-01-10 23:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by GellyBelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could get her on her own and tell her that you like her BUT dont ask her out until you have seen he response
hope it works
lydia xx
2007-01-10 23:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by sxc lil devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were firends tell her how you feel and tell her you want to take it to the next level
2007-01-10 23:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by lil m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know
2007-01-10 23:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by zghg 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋