I am 18, and he is 23. We just met and we are getting to know each other. We are interested in a relationship but my parents don't like the age difference. I don't really care if they like it because I am 18 but I do respect their thoughts. I find myself wondering though if age is going to be a problem if we decide to get together. Please give me some advice.
2007-01-10 15:01:59 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Naturally, age is a number, and your parents being upset is understandable. Consider this. Though you are 18, and a legal adult and able to do things without your parents' permission, they are only looking out for you and want what's best for you. Later in life, a five year gap may not be as big a deal, but at this stage in your life, it will be almost impossible to overcome. You are a freshman in college, or at least that age, while he has already graduated and may be at graduate school or have a job and be established in the world. The social barriers are almost insurmountable, and I think you should consider that before jumping into a serious relationship. You ought to discuss it with him and your parents, and then make an informed decision based on what you know about yourself and him. Good luck!
2007-01-10 15:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age is a number dear I'm 25 and have dated women from 18 to 37. Given the girls maturity, age is nothing but a number.
2007-01-10 15:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind your parents only want what is best for you. You're five years younger than the young man, I don't see anything wrong with that. Now if he were ten years older, I might wonder. Maybe your parents see something you aren't. If you want a relationship with him consider all the factors. Work, school, play, personalities, take your time and keep your eyes wide open. Good luck on what ever you do.
2007-01-10 15:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big of a difference, you;re 18. Do what you think is right. Your parents may not like your choice but they need to learn to accept you can do pretty much what you want. They should be glad you didn't get a boyfriend who was 43.
2007-01-10 15:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maturity level is more important than age, alotta ppl end up marreid 2 each other with more age diff. u guys r 5 yrs apart, like my parents, that is not bad. i mean its not like he's 30 yrs older than u!! :) THAT wld be kinda freaky..
2007-01-10 15:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by cutie317 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the grand scheme of things, 5 years is not a big deal. now if he was like 33, that might be different.
2007-01-10 15:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by veggie_85_16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good of you to take your parents thoughts into consideration but @ 18 you are an adult.
2007-01-10 15:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not about age, it's about maturity. If you're both on the same maturity level, then it's fine.
2007-01-10 15:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-10 15:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a adult
2007-01-10 15:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋