help i really like some one
2007-01-10 14:59:41 · 30 answers · asked by Peace Love Life :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he does not like you for who you are then he will never really like you.
Talk to him and get to know him and take if from there, if he is not interested then look else where...
2007-01-10 15:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mark B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that he may be just as nervous as you about starting a new relationship. Put him at ease by passing by, making eye contact, and just say hi. After a few times, stop for a second and make some small talk about something happening at school, the weather, whatever. See what his reactions are. Usually if the chemistry is there, that's all it takes.
If he doesn't respond, don't take it personally. Just move along to the next guy; in fact, you may want to make several guy friends at the same time. See what happens!
2007-01-10 23:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by busterdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to make somebody like you, the less likely it will be that they will like you.
There is nothing cheasier than a fake. And if you try to make him like you, you will come off as a fake. And even if you get away with it, and you fool him into thinking you're something you're not, he might lose respect for you.
Just be yourself. This is the only way to try to get a guy to like you. If he doesn't like who you really are then the whole thing is a waste of time. Be yourself.
I know that when people try to make me like them, I get irritated by them. I'll decide on my own who I like and who I do not like.
Having said all that, nothing is sexier than a genuine smile and a happy, well adjusted person. Enthusiasm is contagious. Ask the guy questions about himself and see if there is any real common ground. If you find any, you're off and running. Guys like to talk about themselves and what they do for a living. They like to talk about their accomplishments and hobbies and so on. Get him to talk and then you listen. Just be yourself though, don't be phoney and agree with everything he says.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-10 23:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound so "cliche" but seriously, be yourself. And don't in any way concentrate on liking him and him liking you. Go in with the intent of only being a friend, let him know you're cool by showing interest in what he likes. And most importantly, give him his space. Guys hate it when a girl starts to get clingy.
2007-01-10 23:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rednr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, just be yourself. You shouldn't have to change for anyone, because in the long run the relationship will be ugly because you will start to be you again and he will be expecting you to act like when you first met and that just causes arguments. But this is only my opinion, just do what makes you happy.
2007-01-10 23:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by myshell_rider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could start be opening yourself up to that person, and being yourself, i relly dont think you should have to MAKE somebody love you, if you have opened yourself up to that person, and told him how you feel about him, i think thats all you can do, and hope for the best, but never change yourself, or try to be someone your not to try to convince somebody to love you , by yourself!
if that hasnt worked im sorry, there are plenty of guys out there, alot of them are jerks, but there is someone out there for you anyways good luck!!!
does this sound wierd coming from a guy
2007-01-10 23:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Gman 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look cute, smile. Give him compliments, laugh at his jokes. Make yourself appear busy but interested in him. If you want to ask him out, be bold ask him out. Some guys actually prefer that! Good luck.
2007-01-10 23:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmmm...may be just be simple and cool everytime you saw or your with him.and talk with him like his just an ordinary, also get some idia about what he likes but and dont every make him feel you like him..and sometimes impress him in a nice way...you know what sometimes when guys are been treated that they are improtant to you uhmmm they get an attitude that its not that good,,..
just be natural and simple..
talk with him in a funny but natural...then he will tell you that your cool...
2007-01-10 23:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by thaz_47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. Just be you. If who you are isn't enough then you don't need him anyway. You can't make a person like you. All you can do is show them who you are.
2007-01-10 23:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by PlanetYeck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anybody like you. You can only be a person who deserves to be liked.
2007-01-10 23:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by DredPir8Roberts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋