I asked my girlfriend to trim my mustache with scissors. She pinched my lip and it hurt like hell. I yelled at her because it hurt. She apologized and said that it was an accident. I yelled back and told her that that **** hurt. I walked out of the room into the kitchen where my friend was waiting. All of a sudden, from the bathroom, she yelled out "don't ask me to cut your mustache again since you can't accept that it was a accident." I got so angry because I felt like she was challenging me and I have a real problem with people challenging me. I went back into the bathroom where she was at and told her that she had better not ever challenge me again!!! She told me that I scared her because I was yelling at the top of my lungs, with my fist balled up. I would never hit her. I decided I would move out of her house because I refuse to be challenged again. She didn't even ask me to stay. It seems like she isn't even affected by me leaving. Do you think she has someone else?
2007-01-10 14:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but I do think you have a problem. She did apologize, but you REFUSE to acknowledge it. YOU were the one who asked her to trim your mustache. She TRIED to oblige you. She understood that it hurt you, and tried really hard to apologize for it. She wasn't challenging you and yes,it is terrifying to have your boyfriend screaming at you in a rage, can't you see what you did to her...or are you too selfish to realize this and want others to feel sorry for you. I think you need to apologize this time. Again, she only tried to please you by doing what you asked. How would you like it if someone came screaming at you with their fists for making a simple little mistake? Of course then it would be a challenge and that is exactly what you did to her, yet you don't recognize this problem with yourself...only with her. I think you are a hard a** and need to cool down. Because one day you don't know if you will hit her...after all you did come pretty close to it... I don't care what you say. I know, I was once in your girlfriend's shoes. You NEED to apologize and quit being such an overbearing ogre. Too, maybe YOU should trim your own mustache from now on, that way you can get p***ed off at your self instead of taking things out on your girlfriend.
2007-01-10 15:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't have anyone yet, but if you keep the yelling and cr@p you will not get a second chance. Just try to take it easy and go apologize and maybe things will shape up.
2007-01-10 22:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by f00tball77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know when my husband yells I don't want to be around him. Maybe she just needs some space for a day. I also think your a big baby.
2007-01-10 22:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jem 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, she just wants to show you that because you were being so mean that maybe youll be madder if she didnt get phased by it.........just cool off and definitly apoligize and tell her that you never meant to scare her and that you will try to deal with your challenging problem. it is not her fault....accidents happen, thats part of life.
2007-01-10 22:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by manatee_love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you have your own perosnal issues to resolve with the anger and being challenged. Good luck
2007-01-10 22:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,maybe.but i dont think she was challenging you.Maybe an eletric razor would be better...
2007-01-10 22:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie Pooh :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she juss prly got scared of you but it depends on her past actions of the past 2-3 weeks
2007-01-10 22:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by NILEqween 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOUR NUTS LOL
2007-01-10 22:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by zidane b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋