There is this total perv that I started liking a few weeks ago, but, again, he is a total perv. He touches me and does the accidental "boob brush" occasionally. If you want more, look at his myspace at http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=66169669 he has pics and everything! I'm a good-goody girl that doesn't even cuss. NEver kissed a guy or anything. I only wear revealing clothes becasue that's what my friends got me to buy (i'm bad with peer pressure). He has mentioned stuff he's done, and I talked to his little sis too, who's my friend. I'm a freshman and he's a sophomore.(highschool). He likes to tell me stuff to make me squirm. FOr some reason, all of this makes me lioke him. My stomach leaps and It feels like butterflies are trying to rip it apart just thinking about him. I've pictured kissing him, but that made me feel REALLY good, like too good, so I stopped. WHat do I do about this?
He has slept with freshman before, and (hold on)
2007-01-10 14:43:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's not really what I want, but whenever I'm around him, I find myself thinking I'd do anything for him, so he would just like me. I need SERIOUS help!!!
2007-01-10 14:43:13 · update #1
You guys didn't even see the pics. He has pictures of himself standing nude except for a pair of crumpled up boxers in his hand, covering himself. And yeah, I looked for a while at the picture. Shoot me.
2007-01-10 14:59:34 · update #2
it is called a crush, if he makes you feel awkward stay away and find someone else!
2007-01-10 14:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by moaehahi1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trouble. I'm not talking about who he is normally but rather who he is to you. Honey, you'll end up a sex slave. There are some people who want that kind of relationship and he is trying to get you to beg for it so at the end when he leaves you for someone else or wants you to share him with someone else, he can always say that it was your idea to get hooked up in the first place.
This will never end up in a relationship...that's for sure. I would advise you not to engage with him in casual sex, you'll regret it. He will he even change the way you enjoy physical relationships.
Be careful. Steer clear. Be wise and stay away from him. Don't let your body rule your mind. It should be the other way around.
2007-01-10 22:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're right you need serious help. you are a teenager going on 21 and your hormones are telling you you are growing up that is normal. so is he but boys will be boys and they are going to see how far they can get and then they will tell there friends all about it and exagerate and then you will have a reputation is that what you want? don't sell yourself short you know right from wrong
you have a crush on a hottie and it will cause some very emotional feelings so back off and don't get hurt
2007-01-10 23:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlllllll.....please dont mess with this guy!! Yuuuuuuuuuuucck!!! Hes not even cute. Not to mention hes rude and disrespectful and he sexually harasses you. It excites you because its all new to you. Trust me, find someone else to lust over. YOu will have the same butterflies over other guys, its normal. Something about this guy creeps me out, and Ive been outta high school almost 10 years! Dont waste your time or even give him an ouce of yours.
2007-01-10 22:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're untouched, he wants in your pants.
The second you let him have his way he'll drop you like yesterdays trash.
If you are going to get involved with him I highly suggest you keep control of yourself in the relationship. DO NOT let your emotions of the moment intervene with your morals.
You said you're bad with peer pressure. Don't be suprised if he asks you to put out.
Please be careful! It makes me so sad when I hear stories of girls losing their virginity to some guy who filled them up with all this sugar coated sweet nothings and then ditched them the next day.
He could turn out to be a nice guy, you just have to be careful.
If you set the boundaries and make them clear to him, and if he is a respectable guy, he'll know not to cross those lines. The minute he does, get rid of him!
Good luck.
2007-01-10 22:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its infatuation. Don't worry its completely normal, the thought of something taboo like him doing stuff with you when you're not even together sets you off. Don't worry about it. And unless you're sure sure sure you shouldn't give your first kiss to him, cause your first kiss should be special. Hope I've helped, good luck.
2007-01-10 22:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is seriously DISGUSTING AND DISPICABLE. If I was offered a girl like that, I'd vomit. If that was the last human girl alive and we must repopulate the earth... I WILL DEFINITELY kill myself. And he sleeps with other girls, smokes, takes naked pictures, and you actually like him? That means that you are perverted like him, and enjoy "boob brushing", which is a form of sexual harassment and you are SICK AND DISGUSTING.
2007-01-12 04:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by oofagook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gawd...that is one weird dude. It's normal to be feeling "in love" and stuff like that. I mean, you're in highschool, stuff like that happens! But then, that guy is weird...
2007-01-10 22:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt like you, hes just using you. Dont get too emotional with him before he hurts you.
2007-01-10 22:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by ..;..;.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can easily be taken advantage of. be careful, try to stay away. sounds liek hes been with freshman before.
2007-01-10 22:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋