they never approach me?
i don't get it!!!!!
2007-01-10 14:41:48 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oki, most of you say that they are intimidated but what about the good looking guys....what's stopping them?!!!lol!!!
2007-01-10 15:01:35 · update #1
They are probably scared. Or think they have no chance, so, why bother trying.
2007-01-10 14:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tanaya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of us are just to damned scared of getting turned down by a beautiful women we wont even ask for fear of rejection. Some of us get past it but most look at it like what chance do we have with a Beyonce , Maria , Joline, etc that we end up wishing a lot but not following thru. Even being self assured of ones self still leaves a lot to over come in the real world .
2007-01-10 14:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by trog-mdr@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you carry yourself? If you walk around like you are the most beautiful person in the world then guys will not approach you. Guys don't want to take a chance if they can see themselves getting turned down before it happens. Guys don't want that blow to there ego. Why don't you try going up and talking to a guy and if it doesn't get you anywhere then take a chance asking him out. If you truly are that attractive then I am guessing he is not going to turn you down.
2007-01-10 14:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by osufan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be your beauty, or maybe you have a very Strong personality. It depends in the way you carry yourself, That happens to me a lot, but I found that is because I have a very strong and serious personality. Most guys want a beauty-dummy kind of girl. But in any case, if you like one of them try to make you more accessible and social with him give the guy hints for they are clueless llol
2007-01-10 14:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you smell?
Not all guys go up to every woman. Women don't understand why guys don't approach, but then ridicules the guys who go up to every woman in the bar(I'm taking it, that it's a bar or club by the say you describe it--maybe I'm wrong). But the same point still stands if not a bar.
2007-01-10 14:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men are intimidated by certain types of women. Maybe try being laid back. I don't know so this could be way off. But ya never know.
Good luck
2007-01-10 14:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't have the guts to tell you in your face. Because there afraid there going to be rejected or your going to think there creeps. It has happened to me, they tell someone to tell me that they think Im pretty. But they never say it to my face. Believe it or not guys are really shy when it comes to girls that they think are pretty. Just try to talk to them and make the first move so they feel comfortable talking to you.
2007-01-10 14:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Questions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you must be very good looking and intimidating to most guys.
2007-01-10 14:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear of rejection. That's a bigee with most guys. Next time you overhear that, or know someone who said that . . . especially a guy that you might like . .. go up to him and say something like, "I heard that you think I'm hot, cool ....whatever it was . . . That was really sweet of you. . ... or something like that." It's a great way to start a conversation and to let guys know you are not a snob about your looks.
2007-01-10 14:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not approachable?
You have attitude? Think too highly of yourself?
Or they're just afraid because they think your hot and think that if they talk to you, you'll pretend like you're too good for them.
Make the first move.
2007-01-10 14:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid of you. Try toning it down so your not quite so "hot". Also dont act so hot. Its better to have a couple guys interested in you who arent afraid to approach you than to be turning them all on but intimidating them.
2007-01-10 14:46:02 · answer #11 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋