I already know am going to try to get him back the only thing i want to know is (how?) He is the father of my 4yr old. We are great friends now but i am still deeply inlove with him and want us to be a family once more. So can you just tell me if I should get him back by( flirting with him or should I just tell him how much I still love him?)
2007-01-10 14:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by ashlee s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to keep in mind the reason you guys broken up! that is really good that you guys are great friends? I would say flirting! because you can feel really how he! if you pour heart out y it may be to soon! so go with the flow*****
2007-01-10 14:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on on long you've been apart & how he's acted/talked with you. Maybe take your son to the zoo together - focus on your son & sharing the time together. You will share moments that you can make casual physical contact as if it just felt natural/instintive to do (but YOU did them on purpose).
On the other hand, you may want to speak to a counselor. Why is it you're still in love with him? Is it because you just miss him or don't want him to be around other girls? You've got a son you don't want to confuse & alter his idea of what family is. It may only take 1 or 2 sessions to find a good reason to go for it or move apart. If your ex ends up feeling the same way, it would help to go together to make sure you don't break up again.
Just thoughts from a girl who's almost lost her guy & went to marriage counseling. It does give some great insight to help you make the best decision for you AND your son. Good luck!
2007-01-10 14:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nici251 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pouring your heart out is a horrible strategy. You leave the decision in his hand he has all the power and he might feel like he is doing you a favor by saying yes.
Flirting is a better option, but be suttle, let him chase you but let him catch you, don't play games. when he starts to chase flirt a lot and let him lead, just show him the way.
2007-01-10 14:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Economics Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest about your feelings (without pouring out your heart). Makes sure that he wants the same thing. Good Luck
2007-01-10 14:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first dont flirt..that is too cheesy..that would be last plan...it means ur desperate...well first you go up to him and talk to him saying something like you miss him and you want to get back together and that you are sorry for ________ that you did and that you just want to get back together and forget about the past...and then add the part about your child..saying something like i really want what is the best for our kid..if we are together (your child's name) will actually feel the true meaning of family again..please come back...ill let you think about it..and etc etc etc..
good luck buddy!
tell me how it works out eh?
2007-01-10 14:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Darius C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say flirt but it depends on the guy. if hes sensitive pour your heart out. if hes a horn dog like most guys then flirt!
2007-01-10 14:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by </3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try flirting first, and then pour your heart out if it doesn't work.
2007-01-10 14:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would flirt and trynew stuff that you never did before when you guys were togather . You gotta act like fresh bait agian and get his attention and make him stay focused on you !!!!
2007-01-10 14:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ hello_kitty_xoxo ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell him whats in your heart, no flirting or manipulation, just honesty and being open with what is truly in your heart. just tell him flat out that u still love him.
2007-01-10 14:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you to be a family so just let him know how you feel, both of you must have a chat and state what wil be different now that it's all starting over again
2007-01-10 14:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by angel star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋