Omg...i am close to tears right now! one of my OK-friends flirts her @ss off with a guy I like! I really, really, really like him. Ahh this is so frustrating, cuz i know that he likes her back. and if physically HURTS to see them flirting. I just start crying when those two flirt. It's terrible!!!
I know that the only thing I can do is flirt with him too. He doesn't like me that much, though. I swear, I would kill myself if they ever went out. the pain would be too great for me to handle. (i'm 16)
Do you have any advice??? I've cried on and on about this for a long time, and i've liked him for a long time. I'm actually crying right now. It hurts so bad.
Thank you for reading.
2007-01-10 14:32:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please don't kill yourself. You are much more important than either one of these other kids.
Are there no other boys in your class or school than this one boy? I'd try speaking to alternate boys and/girls and make friends with some girls that don't do this type of thing to a guy they know I like. This girl sounds very vendictive, and perhaps she and the guy are doing it ON PURPOSE to hurt you. How selfish of them.
Please stay focused on your schoolwork and making new friends. This other couple is bad news.
2007-01-10 14:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if the guy is gay or straight. If he is not into gays, you would be better off looking toward the gay community. Some not all are offended to be attracting gays. Feeling like killing yourself is not a thought to cross your mind. At 16, you have a long time ahead to find happiness for yourself. For everyone, there is somebody. Remember, we have to be careful with the choices we make because we may have to live with them. Don't flirt too. Find out his views first.Does your friend know you are attracted to the fellow? I would check it all out before you let this get out of control for yourself. Best of Luck. If I could, I would hold you & let you let it out. I'm a mom & I care.
2007-01-10 22:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by carol jean 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to take control of this situation if at all possible, you must flirt harder and better than your friend, but in the end it may not work, you might try telling your friend that she is hurting you, but I believe she is not a friend and that she may not care. try to do your best, and if you fail, remember that it is his loss, Not yours. there are plenty of fish in the sea, do not hurt yourself ovr this fool. I feel you can do better than him anyway, i know this is true from your question and from experience i know this hurts.
2007-01-10 22:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think i would move on. Its unhealthy to dwell on a person you cant have. Maybe the only reason you like him is beacause hes with your friend. I would also grow a spine because you would die over a man who doesnt recognize your greatness.
2007-01-10 22:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Joshua S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes not really of a much to you then is she
2007-01-10 22:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋