What you need to know:
I'm a guy. I'm 16.
What's going to happen?
Basically... this weekend I will be losing my virginity. Please don't comment here with oh your too young because I outlasted most of the people at my school. I really do care about the girl though.
Can you guys tell me what I need to know... basically in all fields from rubbers to positions to anything.
Thanks!
2007-01-10 14:30:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off you need to buy some condoms and try putting them on before the big event. You don't want to look totally incompetent before you even start. Stick with a mainstream brand (such as trojan) because you know you can count on them. For your first time you should probably just stick with the basic missionary (you'll c.u.m. really quick anyway). After the first few times you can find diagrams, etc online. I posted some basic positions in sources, although you won't need to try them for a few times. Good luck!
2007-01-10 14:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you outlasted most of the people at your school, eh? Did you know that only 50% of people have lost their virginity by the time they graduate high school? That was in a self-reported anonymous survey. All I can say is that LOTS of your friends are LIARS. I'm 21 and still a virgin, and I'm in college and I know several virgins (although I must admit that none of the ones I know of are women). You are very normal.
Well . . . the problem isn't your age. The problem is that you aren't in a stable enough relationship to be having sex. If you get that chick pregnant, you're going to have a huge drain on your budget for the next 18 years. Not to mention that condoms are not very effective against disease. Better than nothing, but not good enough. Better save that for later. Virgins get rarer as you get older, but they aren't THAT rare. It isn't anything to be ashamed of.
Use your own judgement, but consider the consequences thoroughly! Good night!
2007-01-10 14:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously I can't say your too young because that would be hypicritical of me (I had a baby when I way 16) so my first point is ALWAYS, ALWAYS wear a condom...not only to prevent pregnancy but because of all of the STD's floating around out there. Read the direction's on the condom box so you know how to put it on before hand. It rolls right on and make sure there is a little space left on the tip (for semen). Since it's your first time, I'd just stick with missionary (girl on bottom), and get into a little more exciting position's when you get experienced. I repeat, always wear a condom, obviously no one on here is going to stop you from having sex, so just be safe!! Have fun- oh and always respect your woman. No means NO...:)
2007-01-10 14:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - I am assuming you know the basics - where it goes that kind of thing... ha ha...
First of all, know that your first time might not be so spectacular. It's a little awkward and may be painful for the girl. But you have to start somewhere, right?
Before hand, make sure there is a lot of foreplay. This will ensure that your girlfriend is sufficently lubricated, which is a good thing for both of you.
Also, make sure you know how and are comfortable putting on a condom before you get to that point. It sounds ridiculous, but practice.
Just relax, go slow, pay attention to your partner and you'll be fine. Make it very romantic so that it's a good memory for both of you. I feel very bad for people who have unfortunate stories about their first time.
Also, incase you don't already know, she might bleed - even if she thinks she's lost her hymen, she might have part of it intact and may still bleed. Don't make her feel bad for it or anything, just help her clean off.
And cuddle lots afterward.
Good Luck and congratulations.
2007-01-10 14:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your first time, you should buy those condoms that are "mutual pleasure"... or any of them that are thinner so it will feel better... but definitely use one!
I would also go with missionary for your first time. She'll probably like it better and it's more personal than other positions.
Oh, and you might wanna jack off like, an hour or something before you actually do it. Most guys during their first time don't last very long...
Pay attention to the girl and what she wants, and have fun!! Good luck!
2007-01-10 14:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go slow whatever you do so you dont hurt her if its her first time and show her that you love her by doing a lot of kissing before,during and after sex. Then she will feel loved and happy she did it the next day.
2007-01-10 14:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Roll down da rubba man", like Dr. Alban would say. Winxgirl3, would you further explain that?
Anonymous, if condoms are not good enough against diseases, I'd really like you to tell us what is (apart from not touching the girl at all).
2007-01-10 14:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by harakiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~69
~Doggy Style
~Eat out
~B l o w j o b
~Anal
~missionary
~The Magic Weel
~Jackman
~Wild Horse
excperience...you will get better each time
16 is a decent age, I was younger than I wanted
2007-01-10 14:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she truly is a virgin it is not going to feel the best, She is going to bleed alot so be prepared.
As far as condoms go try a thin.
Use the missionary position (you on top) so you can watch her reaction.
2007-01-10 14:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by allseriousnogames 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
good luck, oh and by the way,have u ever heard of young,dumb,and full of cu.m.!
dont do it you're too young,sorry that's the best advice i could give
2007-01-10 14:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by kanaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋