My bf and I lasted together 3 years (I am 19 and he is 21), and I was really in love. I think that at the beginning he was too but then he became very jealous and thought I was cheating on him eventhough I never went out with any boys and I dont have too many friends. I was always bein nice and his family loved me. He never wanted me to be with his friends or anything. I was ok with it because I though he needed to have time to spend with his friends. 4 months ago we started havin problems up to the point that he confessed he didnt like too many things about me. He broke my heart and we broke up. I was very sad but I hoped that we could get back. It's been 2 months since then, but I'm still very sad. I think about him all day and i see him at college daily. He seems fine he even goes out with his girl friends. One of them broke up with his bf the same week that we did and they have been goin out a lot she is on the same classes he is. Do you think he has moved on and dating that girl?
2007-01-10 14:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
owww sweetie, am sorry. I hate to tell yo this but, based on what you are describing, I think that most likely there was something there with that girl even before you guys brake up in the first place. Maybe he got caught up too much into that relationship to the point that they both had to start an official relation, before you and her boyfriend would find out. It's better that you do the same and move on as well. You don't need a person that is going to dictate your life and is going to hide you from his friends. You need some one that compliments you as much as you would compliment him. if you don't have that many friends, I suggest that you start by socializing with your friends' Friends and build a network of your own. Don't sit around for a boy that don't deserve you. Obviously, he never loved you. I say that because from the start sounds like he is very insecure and didn't wanted you to have your own space. Some one that is insecure has a very limited amount of love for other because they don't even love their selves that much to begin with. Sorry but I think that he used you until he would find what he was looking for. Some guys tend to do that, specially low self-steem ones.
2007-01-10 14:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw good riddence to him! It sounds like he was nice enough to date for 3 years, but the truth of the matter is you're too nice and sweet for him!
He broke your heart--don't worry about him. If he's dating someone else, then he's just a loser. You're too good for him!
It's normal not to like some things about your significant other. It's one thing to try to change those things, and it's another to use that as an excuse to break up. It sounds like he is just immature about relationships.
Chin up, sweetie! There are PLENTY of fish in the sea! I'm sorry you have to see him each day, but think of it like this--screw him! Now you can see whomever you wish to.
2007-01-10 14:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to get you jealous. Well, I think that he is a very inconsiderate person. I believe you can do much better. You shouldn't love someone that doesn't see the perfection in you. He seems like a jerk. You should move on and I'm dead serious. You deserve much better! =)
(I'm not just saying it for the points, it's just that I hate guys that think they're all that. They're seriously not worth the effort)
You'll find someone better someday!
2007-01-10 14:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. honestly why should you care if he's moved on or not. He's isn't your problem anymore and he shouldnt of led you on for so long....but then again sometimes guys can be that dumb. And instead of worrying about him, take care of yourself. your more important then some guy. but ya know sometimes things dont work out....three years is a long time and if he wasn't commited by now then something was definetly wrong, it's good he let you go instead of making you waste your time on a dead beat. so good luck!
2007-01-10 14:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I blacked out after the word years...Zzzzzzz
2007-01-10 14:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect yes, and he's not been very honest about things. If that's the case, your better off without him.
2007-01-10 14:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by mld m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he has moved on and so should you. I know that it's hard but go on and be funny. Good luck.
2007-01-10 14:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant say he is. The best thing to do is fight fire with fire, you move on too and dont let him see it bothers you.
2007-01-10 14:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jack P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible...you need to move on. He is a loser who does not deserve your time or your energy!
2007-01-10 14:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that they may have alredy had feelings for each other before you broke up its possible they may have even been seeing each other before.
2007-01-10 14:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by sexymumma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋