I need help with a boy.?

Question

I went out with a boy a year ago. And we were in love. We split up and I was devistated. I recently went over to his house. We talk all the time. and I want to tell him how I love him and Im going to tomorow night. His name is Keith. A few days ago i went to his house and I talked for a few hours and I got on the subject of how he grabbed my butt. and he laughed and I said your just a perv. all you want to be is sucked. and he smiled. and said yeah so. I smiled and said I would suck you. and he said are you serious? I said yeah! Id love to. and he said okay come on. he took me to the side of his house. and asked me if I would bang him. I told him I wont do that unless were dating again so i dont know what to do...I want to go talk to him. I just know he will look at me different now.

I am a strong person...and know guys are gross.. but afterwards... he told me was sorry and told me he loved me. and held me close. and we fell asleep together and the next day he told me he wouldnt make me do stuff i didnt want to anymore.

Answer 1

ummm.... I don't think he still like you! He just wants to bang you and have you "suck him"! Guys will do anything to have sex with us... and it's all up to us girls to do the teasin and reel them in.

If you two do decide to get back together I would wait to have sex and see how long he will last. The longer they last without it, means hes not in it just for the sex and in it for the relationship

Answer 2

1st off, have a little bit more respect for yourself.

He may have seemed interested but it was only so he could do what he wanted.

After he gets what he wants, he will drop you like a bad habit.

Guys aren't attracted to slutty behavior.
It may get you attention in the beginning but the attention won't last long.

Answer 3

Dont do anything with him unless you are in a relationship with him...kinda sounds like to me all hes after is some action...he doesnt respect you if he wants to 'bang' you around the side of his house....