my ex is moving on saturday and i dont know what to do...! hes abusive but i love him so much and id rather die before i see him move... what do i do...
2007-01-10 14:12:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to make things clear we never lived together... im just upset that hes moving to melbourne....
2007-01-10 14:23:10 · update #1
I would have a party...he is leaving...Why, strike that, how can you love someone who hates you enough to hurt you?????
2007-01-10 14:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1
2016-05-08 03:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get on the phone and call a counselor. Think about this for one minute. He is abusive and if he stays you might die. Right now your probably thinking, this one has no idea what she is talking about. I had a sledge hammer held over my head from an abusive husband. He came down and missed me. I was degraded so low I felt worthless and felt I had to stay with him. Guess what. I hit bottom and had to get counseling to save my life and my childrens life. I got the counseling and learned I didn't deserve this. Let him go. You need to learn about you and how to like yourself enough to realize you don't need to stay in an abusive relationship. I am CELEBRATING 14 YEARS OF FREEDOMTHIS YEAR AND STILL ALIVE Take control become a survivor not a victim and like yourself enough to know you can do this. Trust yourself. Best of luck.
2007-01-10 14:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and move on baby. This is your blessing in disguise. God may have closed the window on him to open a door for a good man. I believe it for and you should believe it for you. Get some counseling to from a women's' shelter or clinic so that you can get your self esteem up and start living a full healthy life again. I love you sister and be strong.
2007-01-10 14:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes your ex...and hes abusive! You need to get help hun cause if you really would rather die then see him move away you are fudged up!
2007-01-10 14:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, stay away from him. He doesn't worth your love. Give your self a chance to move on. Look for a better one that also cares for you. It's not the end of the world!!!!!!!!.......
2007-01-10 14:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by lezah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he's abusive, YOU DO NOT NEED THAT! its hard to see someone you love go but think about the facts, HE"S ABUSIVE you deserve better and plus he's your ex, just be glad that he's gone and that he's not hurting you anymore.
2007-01-10 14:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things to remember:
He's your ex
He's abusive
You guys probably arn't together for a reason and its probably a good one so you shouldn't care that he's moving. If anything it will help you move on.
2007-01-10 14:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by twinktoes7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him move...leave him alone , some people fall in love together but cant live together. you will prob always love him (don't know how tho) but you deserve much more let him go
2007-01-10 14:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex not to mention he is abusive. you need to move on and let him move.
2007-01-10 14:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋