Ok, yeah, guy trouble...
There is this guy, he is a sophomore and I am freshman. (highschool) and I kinda sorta like him. At first he was just disgusting, but I got to like him. HE is a pervert, and he is really crude, but for some reason I really like him. Ok, I said that 3 times now, lol. SO anyways, When I think about him, my stomach turns and twists, kinda like butterflies but way stronger. It isn't bad tho. It is definitley good. I am a perfect little girl. Never kissed a guy, never drank, Straight As, all of that stuff. I don't even curse. He likes me, but he is a crude pervert. Hw touches me, and he says stuff he knows makes me squirm. I am going to his sis' house, but I am worried about how he'd act. I like him, so should I go for him? He has a thing for freshman... and he has slepet with a few of them.
Oh yeah, and just thinking about kissing him makes my stomach dance painfully
2007-01-10 14:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't even care if it doesn't work. I don't need a relationship. I just need some assurance that i'm not ugly. I am one of the popular girls, so shouldn't I have gotten a boyfriend yet? isn't 14 old enough?
I
d be willing to go pretty far for him... That may be bad, but I'm sick of working to be good.
2007-01-10 14:19:27 · update #1
You like that guy a lot =), but you gotta keep your head clear, ya know? Perhaps, the first thing you shld do is find out as much abt him as possible from other ppl (Ppl who won't split on your secret or start gossiping that you have a thing for that guy, such as your close circle of friends.). Find out abt his rep at school. You say he has a thing for freshman and slept with a few of them... Does that really sounds good to you? Does that means he's going after you not because of YOU, but because you're a freshman?
Also, one most impt thing is that you feel comfortable with the person you love. It's okay if he's just teasing ya, but deliberately making you squirm once too many times is just not very nice.
And hey! If ya popular it means ppl like you! You got the inner beauty already mate. If ya looking for a person who can assure you that ya not ugly (Although, I dun think ya ugly at all, but kawaii ^^), then look for a relationship that can WORK. A brief and broken relationship will leave you with a broken heart and feeling even uglier than before, unless you have a very positive mindset going on, which... I dun think ya have achieved yet, actually. You know what happen to girls who are taken for a ride and a one nightstand!
Well, you have to make up your mind on your own, but then my opinion of that guy ain't good at all. If it was me I would steer clear of him. Just be careful alright? Good luck and heads up!
2007-01-10 14:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ayako 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel because the guy I like is the same way. He is a pervert and says some really gross things sometimes but I really like him. He has even slept with girls, without even being in relationships with them but I still like him. He has made fun of fat people in front of me so many times, and i am overweight, but I STILL like him lol....I have liked this guy for about a year and a half now and still haven't told him because I know he wont like me back.... If you really like this guy and you feel you could make it work with him,then try it.... Good luck....
2007-01-10 22:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stated he's a pervert a couple of times so you know what he wants and it's not just to hold your hand or play kiss face. He wants in your pants. If you want that then go for it, just use protection and be ready for a broken heart.
2007-01-10 22:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore your feelings, what ever happens between u two wont be pretty and you'll regret it. just go after someone else who has the same things in common with u or someone at least that wont hurt u. good luck
2007-01-10 22:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's planning on seeing how far he can go with you. If you are innocent like you said, don't sacrifice that for him. Just be yourself, trust your instincts and hope he respects that.
2007-01-10 22:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds horrible trust me i was like that and i know what he wants. Dont go for it.
2007-01-10 22:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't love, it's an infatuation. Ignore him. It would be best for you.....
2007-01-10 22:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋