My boyfriend is really good friends with this one girl and I just found out that it's his exgirlfriend because he forgot to tell me. He's also friends with all his other ex girlfriends. I feel like I'm not good enough now.
2007-01-10 13:45:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chill. I'm on good terms with a couple exs but it doesn't have any bear any importance on my current relationship. Take it as a mark of maturity.
To give you an example, I have been really great friends with this one girl since we met in the 6th grade. We tried dating and just discovered that it really wasn't right for us. Things were awkward for a while. We are now good friends again, I am glad.
Although it might not be what you want to hear, odds are you will probably break up with your boyfriend someday because things don't always work out the way we would want them to. Would you really want to lose your closest friend as well.
Finally, I hate to bring up a sitcom but Jerry and Elaine from Seinfeld are basically best friends, and they once dated. What a great TV show.
2007-01-10 13:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by andyseaver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not that you are not good enough.
Why didn't he tell you? You mean he forgets for that moment that the girl was ONCE UPON A TIME HIS GF?
Will he mind you being good friends with your ex-es?
I dont really know your bf... so I am not in the position to judge what kind of person he is... but obviously, trust, understanding & communication are all missing in this relationship~
Think about it. Talk to him about how you feel. But if he is nonchalent about your feelings... get rid of him before you suffer from depression.
2007-01-10 21:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by alibaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with my personal expirence with almost this same situation, you first have to come to the acceptance that you are good enough, actually that your better then gooe enough. Because if you have no confidence in yourself nobody else will either.You also have to accept the fact that everybody is going to have friends even some that they dated, but that doesnt mean that they wanna get back with them or anything like that.If he hasnt change then you shouldnt either.Hes with you now, remember that!Good Luck!!
2007-01-10 21:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by dynastyy2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like complete trouble honey. He is a player. There is a fine line to draw. He did not forget to tell you either about the ex-girlfriend. Trash day.....kick to the curb!
2007-01-10 22:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by go gators 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's a puzzle but one good thing you will know is that your break will be painless and then you to can be a ex girl friend and a friend .lol i am sorry I'm getting tired ...if you cannot trust him then it is best to break up threes no sense in it you must be able to trust him or you will go crazy about it and drive him away .does these ex girls have boyfriends ?
2007-01-10 21:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by dmck105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't good enough if you feel that way about yourself. Remember a positive person always wins in the long run. Good luck.
2007-01-10 21:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a simular situation. My best friend and I use to go out but we realized that we were much better friends. He didnt tell his new gf that we use to go out at first. She became very jealous and doesnt let him hang with me anymore.
Jealousy is not healthy. You need to talk to him and trust him. Who know maybe you can be friends with her too.
2007-01-10 21:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dom . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand why you would feel insecure but has he ever given you any sign that he is into them like that anymore? and if you are uncomfortable talk to him about it......you never know it could just be that those girls and him just wernt good as bf/gf and they are good as just friends.....im sure that what it is and nothing more you dont need to worry
2007-01-10 21:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep all of his ex-es on a string and keep you too. Dump him. He has a ego propblem and you are feeding it.
2007-01-10 21:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by lil mamma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo that sucks . . . just go talk to him about it that it makes you feel weird and not good enough if he's a good boyfriend hell understand
2007-01-10 21:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mickster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋