I like this guy in my class and he lies me but he has a girlfriend and is afraid to admit to me that he likes me. I know we werent ment to be but I still like him we flirt talk alll the time laugh together and i have known him since 4th grade and I have liked him forever. I just dont know what to do
? I dont knwo if I should tell him that I still have feelings for him or not please help????
2007-01-10 13:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you're sure that he likes you then there's probably some chance left, but if you are wrong, then you should just let him be with his girlfriend. In my point of view, I think that you should personally talk to him about how you feel and see what kind of an answer he gives you. If he truly likes his girlfriend then you shouldn't be the third person. If he's not sure about your or his girlfriend, you should let them be together. If he dislkes his girlfriend then that's your chance. Just don't butt in and make him break up with his gf because that would be so sad for her. Can't you imagine? Well, one more thing...there are plenty of guys out there no matter what you say. =) Good luck
2007-01-10 13:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u feel that strongly u shud tel him otherwise u wil always regret it.....wots the worst that can happen?? However if he has a girlfriend but is obviously flirtin wit u, he may just want attention, therefore u might need to make him jealous, flirt with other guys b4 he realises ur the one??? This is only one option however!!!Dont give it to him too easily....if hes worth it, he will realise as long as u tell him, and he shud hav done by now nyways!!! Good luck!!
2007-01-10 21:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by lulu261187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. Stop whatever you are thinking right now. It can't go anywhere. You want someone who is exclusive to you , not someone else's bf with a wandering eye for other girls.
If you were with him he would repeat the same behavior with other girls.
Think about what you will end up with. A flirt.
Save our feelings for someone new who has eyes only for you.
This dream of yours can go nowhere.
You will only embarrass yourself, build up his ego and he will know how you feel and maybe try to take advantage of it or he might tell his gf. Eeeeeeeeeek .........
Rip up the page and start over......
2007-01-10 21:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same happened to me... my first love I NEVER dated... I loved this guy from the moment I laid eyes on him in 6th grade and had to watch him date in High School, *sigh*, the last day of his senior yr, he was 1 yr ahead of me, he sat down beside me and said, * I think it is time we start our lives together*, *sigh*, I nearly came unglued !!! come to find out he avoided me and dating me because he was afraid to get serious at such a young age ! well, I was commited to another and so it went... I am married to that other guy, and married happily for 3o yrs... so rather you tell this guy or not, it is all up to you... my guy knew how I felt but he waited to long to tell me and my heart just fell in love with another... sooooo, YOU have to decide rather YOU need to tell this guy how you feel or not, no one can tell you what is RIGHT for YOU !!!! God bless
2007-01-10 21:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell HIM ! What is the worst that can happen ??? You've known eachother since 4th grade - can't get anymore excruciating for you if you don't get a STRAIGHT answer right ???
Good luck to you !
2007-01-10 21:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by LWJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a girlfriend. Move on. If you stop moping and get a life, you'll probably find yourself a nice single guy.
2007-01-10 21:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u should find a way to break them up. so if ya'll like each other and you should try calling him and tell him how u feel
2007-01-10 21:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by normannkj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U MUST LET YOUR TRUE FEELINGS BE KNOWN OR U WILL REGRET IT 4-EVER I PROMISE
2007-01-10 21:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by swfgina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart girl...........if it turns out wrong you did what felt right....peace
2007-01-10 21:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab his wiener and see what he does
2007-01-10 21:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by casinoman_1999 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋