will sex happen in the moment naturally..or will he ask you for sex flat out?
and what does it mean if he doesn't really talk the first time, but the second time he is really caring and constantly asks if i'm alright.
ps. he was not a virgin before me
2007-01-10 13:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by jess p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm this will depend on the guy and yourself. Sex should happen out of the spur of the moment. You sound young, I hope your atleast over 18, if not than wait a while will ya? Too many young girls getting knocked up or getting STD's. You'll get your chance to have sex, just wait for the right guy and moment.
2007-01-10 13:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by cib0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a personal thing ya know everyone is different. many of my friends myself included think taking some girls virginity is scary! there's emotions and responsibility that come along with it He's probably only going to ask flat out if he's young and stupid as there are better ways to approach it and that come with experience. as far as talking. I'm not surprised he didn't the first time, especially is he's never been with a virgin before. and that fact there was a second time is encouraging, even more because he show such concern. take heart it gets better with pratice!! just remember your supposed to be having fun. so feel free to ask questions, try new things and get to know your body cuz guys can be hit or miss. have fun and be safe.
2007-01-10 21:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope your old enough and use a condom! it was this movie where a dude went around having sex with nothing but virgins but had aids! so some where in the process thinking one was pure she was really a slut! so every girl afterward who was really a virgin paid the price!
If this dude really like you and know that you a virgin he would take it slow, comforting you the whole way threw! He would'nt off top ask for sex but really really get to know you! Ask any female!
2007-01-10 21:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he would be more eager to have sex. So he might have hurried you or tried to be just sweet enough to get what he wanted before you could wake up and do the keep it that way thing.
2007-01-10 21:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should happen naturally, when you both are ready to go onto a different level in your relationship.
the first time, he might be concentrating really hard not to hurt you too much, hence the silence. the second time around, he wants to please you and ease into the mood, hence his questioning.
2007-01-10 21:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck getting a virgin..if guys knew the secrets of getting a virgin there would probably be high pregnancy rates and alot of screwing ...
2007-01-10 21:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by casinoman_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about sex before you do it. make sure you have condoms...unless you're trying to get pregnant. make sure you are both prepared before doing it. he shouldn't ask for sex...but he should ask (or you should) ask how each other feel about it.
2007-01-10 21:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Joe S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously sound confused,..
wait until you know a little more about sex
befor you start worrying about it..
2007-01-10 21:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the character of the guy. if he's nice, then he'll respect ur wishes. if he's not, then he won't care. but its not necessarily like that. if u trust him, then trust his judgement.
2007-01-10 21:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by AznSmartiePants3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guys will wait until they are ready i dont know about crazy guys
2007-01-10 21:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by brittney h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋