yesterday i called my boyfriend and when it went to his voicemail and i wasnt on there anymore so i asked him about it and he said he did it for no reason so i anit wanna get mad about it and he wasnt goin to tell me why anyway so i let it go but today i was goin through his text messages and i found a message that said hey baby from a number that i didnt recognize and when i asked him who sent it he told me he anit know that was probaly me but i dont text him from other numbers then he told me it was one of his brothers friends so i said well why did u save it then i told him to call it and it went to the voicemail and he was like oh thats my cousin he was just playin but i remebered the number and called it myself so it went to the voicemail and nobody was talkin so what should i do cuz to me it seem like he hiding something from me
2007-01-10 13:05:56 · 14 answers · asked by so faithful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't push him away. You need to be more confident in yourself. If he cheats on you, eventually it will come out. You should be able to walk away with your dignity if it happens. So, in the meantime, concentrate on being happy.
2007-01-10 13:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All I can say is with out trust in a relationship you have nothing. As a girlfriend myself I would not go for that getting a text from someone saying hey baby . Go to a pay phone and call the number of text it and find put who it is just to get your mind right .remember don't fight over no guy if he is doing something with someone that is not you. well good luck oh and just don't keep asking him about it .
2007-01-10 21:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by shorty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he really done something to make you distrust him like you seem to ? Sometimes friends do play around like that with text messages.
Main thing to look at is how does he treat you on a daily basis ? Are you looking for problems where problems don't exist ?
It is up to you how you treat the situation ? Can you be over reacting ? A few months ago, I listened to my husband's messages and their was a business college. I did question it at first, however I know my husband loves me and that person is a just a flirt. Sometimes you just have to believe in the person you are committed to, and you can sense more by his daily behavior.
2007-01-10 21:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is giving you the chance to look through his messages, either he wants you to see them or he didn't have a chance to get rid of them, or he just doesn't care anymore. I would take his phone, go through and DELETE every fricking thing you don't like on it. Numbers you don't know, and have called to see who they belong to, without satisfactory results, of course, texts, whatever. When he asks, tell him why. If he freaks out or gets mad, cut him loose.He is lookng for Miss New Booty.
2007-01-10 21:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh.....guys who needs em..... he either may think ur a gullible fool.....and it seems like hes tired of you or something. The first sign of when a guy is about to break up w/ you or something means that he is usually less chattier than normal. But then, maybe ur a paranoid fool at that and u cant trust him with anything and maybe hes gettin fed up with that....i dunno the best thing to do is talkin to him without alot of people around and not over the phone. Re-connect back with each other
2007-01-10 21:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck....
YOu know exactly what you need to do
DO IT!
dont get played for a fool!
2007-01-10 21:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't trust your boyfriend, maybe he does have something to hide, maybe he doesn't, i wouldn't say anything unless i had proof though, this is how relationships end. Have a little faith in him and a little faith in yourself.
2007-01-10 21:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by darkfallenangel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time to leave this loser!!!! You shouldn't have to feel like something is wrong w/ you,especially when he probably isn't being faithful!!!! Your instincts are talking to ya....LISTEN!!
2007-01-10 21:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by spicy1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His first mistake was letting you have access to his cell phone! I'mma have to school this young brotha!!
2007-01-10 21:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are being kinda pushy....but I can definatly see why.
Trust him, and if he ever breaks that trust, dump him.
2007-01-10 21:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋