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2007-01-10 13:04:25 · 39 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love her, then who cares what your family thinks!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-01-10 13:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by MRod 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So what it's your life and fat people are people too duhh. they can't be that superficial, and if they are you need to teach them the lesson that not all fat people are slobs, lazy or whatever else they think. You need to do what is right for you and for this lovely woman. Never mind people. They are the ones with the problem, not you. Don't apologize to anyone, I am not a little woman. I'm not huge but I have been bigger and smaller and it is sad to think that people judge us on our looks. I mean, I had a thyroid problem and still do, I have a problem with some medications too. So what.I am not stupid, I am loving, caring and a very nice person that lives well and enjoys it. I am not a stick, I don't starve myself and I do not think of anyone in negative terms until they say or do something that is unkind...then my opinion of them changes whether they are thin or fat. That is the line that I judge people by not their looks. There but for the grace of God goes anyone of us, being blind, deaf or even crippled. Right? Be a man. Don't call her fat...please, that means you think of her in those terms and that isn't very nice. Make sure they know before you take her home, they could hurt her feelings by the way they act and you'd have to feel bad and so would she...it would be cruel. So, either tell them and get on with your life or get away from her and do whatever your family wants you to do. My husbands family are all thin....I used to be but had health problems, I know they were judgemental that's why I get excited. It's very unfair and cruel of people that aren't heavy thet have thin genes to see what we are going through. So, wither feel she is love and be with her or think of her as fat and hurt her.
2007-01-10 13:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your question should be, I think I am falling in love with a woman/lady, but my family wouldn't approve. You think of her as fat, where you should just think of her. If your family would not approve of her because of her weight, then that is a problem they will have to work out with themselves. If you are truly in love with this woman, your family will soon see the traits in her that you fell in love with and they to will grow to love her. But, you, you have to be able to look at her and see a woman you love, not a fat woman that you love. You could also help her, but starting a walking regime yourself and invite her to join you, but remember to walk at her pace and do not belittle her if she can't keep up with you. You can make sure you eat healthy, and she will probably join you. If you truly care for this lady, help her. If you do not truly care, then whatever you do, do not lead her on. Love her for who she is, not how she looks.
2007-01-10 13:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dusty T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't u heard fat is in thin is out,but must of all follow u heart.Big is Beautiful everybody can't b small.As long u r comfortable around her go for forget.about ur family they cant pick 4 u just like u cant pick 4 them.That's the worst thing u can do is 2 b worried about what somebody else is gonna say.Have u ever seen the movie i think is shal hollow were he thinks his girlfriend is small but was hypnotize an she really big so don't worry about size as long she keeps her self looking good .
2007-01-10 13:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by klo jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think. Go with your feelings and emotions. What is on the inside is what counts the most. If she is who you wanna be with then make yourself happy. I am sure your famliy are with people you may not approve of we all find love in many different ways and what ever makes you happy then go for it. You can help her on her weight issue but don't let her size or your family opinions decide on what your heart is telling you.
2007-01-10 13:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat people need loving too. I know everybody says this but its whats on the inside that counts and if your falling in love with a "fat woman" who cares?
2007-01-10 13:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Justaskingquestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world are you worried about your family accepting a fat woman? Are they that shallow? It seems as though they need to grow up and get out more.
2007-01-10 13:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Name calling isn't nice...if you truly loved her you wouldn't be in here calling her names...if your family odesn't approve of you falling in love with whoever you want, then your family doesn't love you either. Love is unconditional...
I would suggest you grow up, learn to live your life for YOU. If your family disaproves, so what...Are you an adult ??? Then act like one...
2007-01-10 13:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn that it is your heart and your life that you need to make happy. Your family will be there for you no matter what but, you need to go with what your heart is telling you to do. It shouldn't matter what a person looks like on the outside anyway.
2007-01-10 13:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because this women is over weight doesn't mean she isn't a good person. Allow your family to sit down and talk with her about well anything really and she may get on their good side.
2007-01-10 13:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Meghan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her...she is worth the grief isn't she? Once they get to know her hopefully they will see past her outside to who she really is. Your parents should be proud that they raised a son who loves who a person is and not what they look like. Go for it! Get that girl! Let them warm up in their own time. Enjoy yourself.
2007-01-10 13:25:33 · answer #11 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋