Just curious cause I'm an older virgin and have been examining my life as to why. Thought it would be interesting to hear others stories.
2007-01-10 13:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a 29 year old female and a virgin. I was always not the most popular girl in school and shy about guys. When I went away to college, I still was too shy to do anything about it but maybe go on a first date and a kiss on the cheek.
Well now I am living in my own home, loving my job and still a virgin. I have been thinking about the same thing as you ... why am I still a virgin and I have no answers. I kinda wish I could go back in time, back to highschool or college and just sleep with some guy to get it over with. Well I hope this answers your question and if you want to chat more about this or anything else, send me your email or I might give you mine!!
2007-01-10 13:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jocelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that you're older than me, but I'm 21 and a virgin if it's any consolation. It's a combination of not meeting anyone right and trying to wait until marriage that kept me pure. Good night!
David (below): You're going after the wrong girls, and neglecting the fact that guys have only like a 10% success rate with women anyway. Just because these girls don't like you for some reason or another (inexperience, even), doesn't mean that you should think that there aren't girls who will date you. I think the ones you've encountered were just jealous that you are more sexually pure than they are. You shouldn't be so quick to volunteer that information, you know? Good night!
Why do people regard virginity as some disease to be lost as quickly as possible? You have something precious to offer your future partner. I think when people lash out against virginity, they are expressing their own guilt. Why else would they care that someone else has not slept with anyone? People can learn to be better lovers . . . so experience is of little consequence overall. Good night!
2007-01-10 21:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23.
I was brought up by conservative parents, sent to an all-boys school, and basically had NO social contact with girls until I reached university at the age of 19.
By this time, all the girls in university were either taken or wanted nothing to do with me. I was just starting out in the social/romantic scene. I was as inexperienced as a 13 year old boy. But because all the women were (naturally) more experienced, they just thought I was a loser. This created a vicious cycle I have never been able to break. I am still like a 13 year old boy and I cannot reconcile that with my numerical age. There are NO women as inexperienced as me, and the experienced ones don't like me.
2007-01-10 21:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 73 year old and I've never showed my flashlight to any female. The closest I've ever got was when I got a girl really drunk and she thought I was her boyfriend.
I have no legs, 3 of my fingers are missing, and I have a tattoo of a naked lady on the middle of my forehead --- which tends to scare most people away.
2007-01-10 21:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i'm 22 male....girls dont like me...i'm a nice guy and would treat a girl wonderful just not good looking enough to ever get any dates.
2007-01-10 21:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe a little less time spent on the computer could help? - just throwing it out there.....
2007-01-11 10:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
well you son, need to get your penis wet, life isnt about butthole pleasures.
2007-01-10 21:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Zuzzshi 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I hear a hush over the crowd................
2007-01-10 21:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋