Okay..it's like this;
I want and need this guy so bad, when I wasn't with him, or when I'm not I feel incomplete, he's my everything. But I don't want to be in a relationship. It's not because of anything he's done, it's just I don't know.
He is wonderful, and I know it's not him, but I fear being in a relationship because I fear things will change between us if we hook up, or he'll be exactly like some of my ex's.
I don't know what to do. I love him to death, and need to be with him, but not being with him kills me.
Ugh. I just want to know if anyone feels the same way, and knows why I'm feeling like this, or sometihng.
Please help?
2007-01-10 13:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by only_gurl_broken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have defintiely felt that way. You've been hurt and you're not up for being hurt again. Why not just talk to him about it? Also try to get some counselling. Maybe you have picked badly before and this guy seems too-good-to-be-true for you? Give him a chance. Give yourself a chance too.
2007-01-10 13:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, calm down its o.k. to be confused sometimes. I've been married for 15 years and it hasn't been perfect by all means. Sometimes I would sign the divorce papers right then and there if She had them, but I know I wouldn't get past the front curb before I would have thought about it and turned around. I feel the same about her, She drives me crazy but I cant live or love without her. Sometimes when I feel that way, I go fishing and think! and think! and think! and usually get in trouble because I stayed fishing to long. Be patient with your heart though. Don't do anything that you don't want to do. Just because you have doubts doesn't mean you cant be with him. It just means you have doubts! Good luck I hope your heart leads you in the right way.
2007-01-10 21:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never felt like that because none of us "needs" anyone...we may want them, and want them badly...but we don't need.
Never make someone such a large part of your life that you feel you can't "go on without them". That's foolish and stops you from being an individual because all of the sudden your life is wrapped up in them and their happiness...you stop being you. Nobody is worth that, and someone who TRULY cared for you wouldn't allow you to do it.
Sounds like an unhealthy obsession...work on getting past this quickly or get counseling. It's not a good thing.
2007-01-10 21:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. The heart is very resilient. If it doesn't work out, there are many more fish in the sea.
2007-01-10 21:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by 1truthseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a typical girl never knows what they want, they think its greener on the other side, don't want to miss a opportunity just in case someone better comes around
2007-01-10 21:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have felt this way and i didn't get with him because i didn't want to ruin our friendship.....but I got over him and we're still friends....but you know what girl go with your gut if you feel you guys are meant to be go for it!!!
2007-01-10 21:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by lovey_chell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no-normally when i feel that way im to far head over feet. which means i wanna be with them not single.
2007-01-10 21:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋